OH such a prat!

[ilovelife]

glad to see the calm after the storm has settled and you find a more happier place with your partner. Communication is always the best way forward when you are calm

 

[Scarlet Daisy]

The answer to "why do I have to do everything?" is that in fact you don't. Decide what is important to you, and do those things. Explain - once - that you are going to leave the other things to him. These should be the things which will, if not done, affect him more than you. Then, when he doesn't do them, you don't sigh deeply and do them anyway. Just leave them.

This gets right to the heart of the matter. And in the opposite situation, this is exactly what a MAN would do. Once you approach things their way, men begin to see what you are getting at and respect you more.