Fattack
Likes to eat
hello o/
some of you may remember me from last year. I started plan in October 2009 at 13st 0.5lbs and went down to 10st 7 before going off plan in early December. I'm now around 11stone and miserable, my goal is (and was) 9st.
Now, to cut a long story short, I want to lose this weight so I'm going back on plan. The problem I envisage is... my other half
I love my boyfriend to bits. We actually met online, and were acquaintances through a video game (I know, what nerds) over a year ago, but we only really got chatting this time last year and decided to make a go of it the week before I started Cambridge. I didn't tell him about the plan, in fact, I was very very secretive about being overweight. I came off plan at Christmas, and found it immensely difficult to get back on it. It was only then that I told him I'd lost nearly 3 stone and that my weekly meetings were Cambridge. He was then witness to my struggle to get back on plan and saw how miserable my failure to get back on plan after Christmas was making me. We met up in January and everything was wonderful, and we're still together.
I feel I'm in the right frame of mind to get back on plan now. Unfortunately, he is worried that the plan will only make me miserable, despite my best attempts to convince him otherwise. I know he's trying to support me in a different way (I've been doing weight watchers and going to the gym 3 times a week since May only to have a bad month and put the stone I lost back on) but I really need his support with this. He's also used the line "surely with a diet like this, you'll just put it back on". Amusingly, Cambridge is the diet I've had the most success with afterwards - I've only put half a stone on, and all of that in the last month. I'm also worried that I'll fail again - I'm going to Holland to see him in two weeks, and will be off plan for a week, and I'm terrified that when I get back, I won't be able to transition back into Sole Source.
Does anybody have any words of wisdom?
some of you may remember me from last year. I started plan in October 2009 at 13st 0.5lbs and went down to 10st 7 before going off plan in early December. I'm now around 11stone and miserable, my goal is (and was) 9st.
Now, to cut a long story short, I want to lose this weight so I'm going back on plan. The problem I envisage is... my other half
I love my boyfriend to bits. We actually met online, and were acquaintances through a video game (I know, what nerds) over a year ago, but we only really got chatting this time last year and decided to make a go of it the week before I started Cambridge. I didn't tell him about the plan, in fact, I was very very secretive about being overweight. I came off plan at Christmas, and found it immensely difficult to get back on it. It was only then that I told him I'd lost nearly 3 stone and that my weekly meetings were Cambridge. He was then witness to my struggle to get back on plan and saw how miserable my failure to get back on plan after Christmas was making me. We met up in January and everything was wonderful, and we're still together.
I feel I'm in the right frame of mind to get back on plan now. Unfortunately, he is worried that the plan will only make me miserable, despite my best attempts to convince him otherwise. I know he's trying to support me in a different way (I've been doing weight watchers and going to the gym 3 times a week since May only to have a bad month and put the stone I lost back on) but I really need his support with this. He's also used the line "surely with a diet like this, you'll just put it back on". Amusingly, Cambridge is the diet I've had the most success with afterwards - I've only put half a stone on, and all of that in the last month. I'm also worried that I'll fail again - I'm going to Holland to see him in two weeks, and will be off plan for a week, and I'm terrified that when I get back, I won't be able to transition back into Sole Source.
Does anybody have any words of wisdom?