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unsupportive partners

#1
when i started on LP i didn't tell my hubby. i tried to hide it from him and do it secretly but he found the shakes.

he has started making fun and making jokes already.

he's calling me lipo and buying things i like to eat. e.g. french bread, popcorn, cakes and icecream. he said he bought it for the kids but i think he's trying to rub it in my face. he even held a warm french bread with butter in my face and said smell isn't it nice?.

the other thing is i know he'll tell people what i'm doing that's also the other reason i didn't want him to know. i don't want people to know, i want them to see me slim and say wow, you look great, how did you do it?

but he's gonna spoil it for me. ugg
 
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#2
:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I don't dare write any words .... :mad:
 
#3
OMG:eek: That is such a cruel thing to do. You should ask him straight what he prefers - fat and unhappy you or slim happier you! My dad used to do this to my mum, and her counsellor told her it was because he was insecure and didn't like it when she did things for herself...especially not things that made her more attractive.

OMG - that is so bad!!!
Keep you chin up and keep posting here - there is tons of support! xxx
 

Hedgemag

Cambridge Diet Counsellor
#4
Sorry, but he is a A******E.....do this for you..


Or say I may be fat but I can slim, what you gonna do about your face!

Sorrybut it makes me cross.
 
#5
erm..I'm sorry but -what a prat! Is there no way you can make him understand how important this is to you?
COuld there be other reasons he may not want you to lose weight?

I find it so hard to understand how someone who should be supportive could do that...I feel so lucky now that my partner is doing with me, I'm not sure I'd stick to it in your situation.
 
#6
You should buy some kinky underwear and wave it under his nose - sayin 'hmmmm, looks good doesn't it?' then bang on the aul' bridget Jones control knickers and say -well! You wanted it this way!
 
#7
Yeh i had a bit of that last week with mine :sigh: I think he thinks that if i'm slim i'll run off with someone else :rolleyes: I wouldn't be that bloody lucky :giggle:
 
#9
omg he needs a good kick up the backside.

My partner wudnt dare tell anyone what I was doing and if he did i would kill him. As far as im concerned it's my business no one else's.

He prob is afraid u will become a skinny minny and run of with someone better looking than him
 
#11
I am so sorry for you. I can't post what I want to say otherwise I would get banned! :mad::mad::mad:
 
#12
Me and the wife did it together and supported each other all the way, i wouldn`t dare taunt her if she was doing it on her own, just lose the weight and say i told you so Ner Ner, or do what you women do best and withold your services in the bedroom :rolleyes:
 
#13
Lol Allen - although quite frankly if mine said that he would not have the "equipment" left for the bedroom priviledges!!!

PS Helen - I am a divorce lawyer if you want a permenant solution!!! ;)
 
#14
Thats such a shame what a prat, just get a printed T-Shirt made -

Front - I AM ONLY HERE BECAUSE I AM FAT
Back - WHEN I AM THIN I AM GONE

That should put a sock in his insecure mouth, worse case scenarion people do find out what you are doing, could work in your favour and give you more incentive to stay focused;)

Goodluck
 
#18
Thats such a shame what a prat, just get a printed T-Shirt made -

Front - I AM ONLY HERE BECAUSE I AM FAT
Back - WHEN I AM THIN I AM GONE

That should put a sock in his insecure mouth, worse case scenarion people do find out what you are doing, could work in your favour and give you more incentive to stay focused;)

Goodluck
I want one of them tshirts :rotflmao:
 
#19
Do you think I could get my firm to sponsor the T shirts for us all?
 

Yuna

Let’s do this!! d(*.*)b
#20
OMG:eek: My dad used to do this to my mum, and her counsellor told her it was because he was insecure and didn't like it when she did things for herself...especially not things that made her more attractive.

So true, my dad did the same thing to my mum when she was on LT. He ended up doing it aswell when he say he fab results. It's all about his issues and prob jealousy.

But stick with it, you'll be the one laughing soon when you get all the male attention!
 


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