That is certainy foodpack for thought! i decided a while ago never to save anything for best, to always use the good china, to wear my expensive perfume whenever the hell i felt like it and to tell people i love them whenever it pops into my head. My friends husband was killed on christmas eve a few years ago and the thing that still hurts her today was that they never said or did all of the things they were 'saving for the occasion'. Since then, my husband has had a few bad health scares. It really brings it home to you