Elle-Emm
Gold Member
and if so, is it a bad thing?
My friend and i went on holiday last year, early Oct for a week in the sun. It was lovely and we said we must do it again. So we'd loosely planned for a similar time this year.
She knows I'm doing LT, is supportive (yet also negative and slightly jealous) but when i said (not for the first time) that i don't want to go on holiday until i'm at goal or close enough to do the refeed thing on holiday she got really annoyed and said she'd be p***ed off if SHE didn't get HER holiday. Worth saying that she has already had a 2 week holiday with her boyfriend so it's not like i'm spoiling all her fun for the year.
I think losing all this weight (will be 9 stone by time i'm finished) is SUCH a big deal and SO important to me that i'm justified in being selfish and don't see it as a bad thing. I've explained that to her but she's a moody cow sometimes.
Anyway, I'm stubborn as a mule and we won't fall out over it big time i just think she's being a bit unsupportive as she's yo-yo dieting big time (-3lb one week, +3lb the next etc).
Of course I'd love a holiday but losing weight is so much more important in the grand scheme of the rest of my healthy future life.
Sorry for the rant, her negativity just annoys me!!
My friend and i went on holiday last year, early Oct for a week in the sun. It was lovely and we said we must do it again. So we'd loosely planned for a similar time this year.
She knows I'm doing LT, is supportive (yet also negative and slightly jealous) but when i said (not for the first time) that i don't want to go on holiday until i'm at goal or close enough to do the refeed thing on holiday she got really annoyed and said she'd be p***ed off if SHE didn't get HER holiday. Worth saying that she has already had a 2 week holiday with her boyfriend so it's not like i'm spoiling all her fun for the year.
I think losing all this weight (will be 9 stone by time i'm finished) is SUCH a big deal and SO important to me that i'm justified in being selfish and don't see it as a bad thing. I've explained that to her but she's a moody cow sometimes.
Anyway, I'm stubborn as a mule and we won't fall out over it big time i just think she's being a bit unsupportive as she's yo-yo dieting big time (-3lb one week, +3lb the next etc).
Of course I'd love a holiday but losing weight is so much more important in the grand scheme of the rest of my healthy future life.
Sorry for the rant, her negativity just annoys me!!