Miel
French Honey
I never told DH until we went to Slimming World together a few years ago. I was so embarrassed because I weighed more than him and he's 6 foot. Since then I added a few more stone but didn't tell him. When I started CD I told him outright after I had lost a stone; he was really lovely and is very supportive.
DH says that he loves me whatever size I am and that it has never made any difference to him what I weighed because he loves me. That didn't exactly fill me with motivation, but then he said that he wanted me to be healthy and for that I must lose weight which has been my incentive really.
Nobody other than DH and my CDC know my weight, people can guess and they always get it completely wrong and under-estimate widely which means that I can't look as bad as I feel I suppose, but I'm not going to correct them am I?
I don't think that anyone should feel as though they have to tell others about their weight, it is very painful admitting it I know, but once the confidence comes back then maybe you'll feel that you want to share it.
I can't imagine telling anyone that I'm doing CD to be honest as I feel ashamed that I couldn't 'sort it out' conventionally. Only DH knows about it, and I take the most amazing measures to hide it from the rest of the family.
Each to their own, I say
DH says that he loves me whatever size I am and that it has never made any difference to him what I weighed because he loves me. That didn't exactly fill me with motivation, but then he said that he wanted me to be healthy and for that I must lose weight which has been my incentive really.
Nobody other than DH and my CDC know my weight, people can guess and they always get it completely wrong and under-estimate widely which means that I can't look as bad as I feel I suppose, but I'm not going to correct them am I?
I don't think that anyone should feel as though they have to tell others about their weight, it is very painful admitting it I know, but once the confidence comes back then maybe you'll feel that you want to share it.
I can't imagine telling anyone that I'm doing CD to be honest as I feel ashamed that I couldn't 'sort it out' conventionally. Only DH knows about it, and I take the most amazing measures to hide it from the rest of the family.
Each to their own, I say