I am very similar - 9ish for the coffee shake (depends on whether I am doing the school run but prefer to have it before I leave as I find it helps combat the dog breath!!).
Lunch is a soup about 12.30ish.
Then I have a chocolate mousse between 4.30 and 5pm as I find I can cope much better with making the family meal then.
Finally I make some crisps as about 8.30pm as I enjoy that as an evening snack whilst working through emails or watching telly.
I was always a daytime grazer and so found this worked well but last month I found the evenings difficult and so have this week added
Half a cambridge bar in the evening chopped up into little sweeties with a warm green tea. This is such a treat and has stopped me being tempted to pick back in ketosis today! I am 5ft 9in and so I guess this is fine. Although my counsellor is 'old school Cambridge' and thinks you should have three sachets whatever your height and no bars.