If you have lost a post and can remember the name of the thread just click on search in the blue header band above and you will get all the threads like the one you posted in and you will find it that way.
It is a bit overwhelming at first, but nothing worth having is easy lol !!!!
Stick with it girls, it is a great place to be and there is so much support. You need never fell alone once you are a member here.
Welcome to you both..................
Enjoy.