i feel like i have because of the way she has been- usually she is really open and this time she's so closed off- and i know now it is because of me.
after nearly breaking down while on the checkout in work, i texted her- i said "i know you want your space but please can we talk about this? i'm worried about you" she replied an hour and a half later "i'm perfectly fine, i just need my space"
i just said "ok i understand, i just hope you can tell me what' going on. i really hate that i've upset you but i dont know why. you mean a lot to me and you are one of my best friends, i dont want to lose our friendship"
i'm now going to detach and wait for her....but its so painful and i am hurting so much it's unreal