MissSlinky2011
Silver Member
Hi everyone,
I'm having ex bf issues, really really bad. I was totally in love with this guy when I had a miscarriage and he cheated on me. We split up but being the softie I am I told him if he ever needed me I was still there for him (like I said head over heels in love) he was in the army and seen some really bad stuff and I was the only person who could get him out of his black hole he would go into.
We didn't speak for almost 3 years he has since married, had 2 kids and in the process of getting divorced (from the girl he cheated on me with)
I am very happily married to the real love of my life.
But the ex started texting me, he's in a really bad place and I can't help but want to help him! But he keeps saying things like how much he regrets what happened how much of a d*ck he was how I'm the one that got away and how he really loved me but couldn't cope with losing the baby and that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and he lost me.
I'm flattered but I don't feel anything for him, id like to help him but I feel like I'm being dishonest to my husband by talking to him.
What do I do?
X x x
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I'm having ex bf issues, really really bad. I was totally in love with this guy when I had a miscarriage and he cheated on me. We split up but being the softie I am I told him if he ever needed me I was still there for him (like I said head over heels in love) he was in the army and seen some really bad stuff and I was the only person who could get him out of his black hole he would go into.
We didn't speak for almost 3 years he has since married, had 2 kids and in the process of getting divorced (from the girl he cheated on me with)
I am very happily married to the real love of my life.
But the ex started texting me, he's in a really bad place and I can't help but want to help him! But he keeps saying things like how much he regrets what happened how much of a d*ck he was how I'm the one that got away and how he really loved me but couldn't cope with losing the baby and that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and he lost me.
I'm flattered but I don't feel anything for him, id like to help him but I feel like I'm being dishonest to my husband by talking to him.
What do I do?
X x x
Sent from my HTC Desire using MiniMins x x x