I got asked tonight....

[Charisma]

...if i have had a baby! and as i havent i was acctualy pretty devistated as i thought i was paranoid about feeling fat:sigh:

 

[niknaks]

omg! Who said that? Are they close friends? Don't take it personal hun- if it was me i'd prob laugh and have replied- nope have u?HAHA Chin up xx

 

[Charisma]

it was one of the kids at work hes only about 7. its my biggest selfconcious place so im feelin pretty crappy now

 

[need2shrink]

kids are kids unfortunately, when i was preg my 6yr old though everyone else must be preg too, then she asked me the otherdat was i having another one cos ive got a big belly.. it was a kick in the guts.. dont worry let it roll off your back, dont let it get u down, ur doing well keep it up! hugs nic x

 

[Edwin]

dont worry about what a kid says. life is so black and white to them. my 2 yr old pointed to a rather large lady in the shops the other week and yelled 'look mummy she has a baby in her tummy'. clearly she didnt. i was mortified but she just laughed - on the outside anyhow! they dont mean any offence - he probably just has recent experience of a pregnant lady.

 

[suepat10]

...if i have had a baby! and as i havent i was acctualy pretty devistated as i thought i was paranoid about feeling fat:sigh:

Maybe he meant because your stomach was smaller?

 

[Taz]

Kids, unfortunately, are cruelly honest! When I was 18 I worked in a school and as I was so ahamed of my size I covered up with really baggy tops. One day one of the kids asked why I was wearing my dads t-shirt! I was quite embarrassed as I obviously looked really bad in it, also I was a lot bigger than my dad and his t-shirts wouldn't have fitted me! But they are just kids hun, I know it's hard but you have to let it go over your head. You are on the path to a smaller you so those comments will soon be a thing of the past! x

 

[Mrs V]

As the others have said Hun, children are innocent and everything is black and white. My Daughter is telling everyone that Mummy is having a Baby brother for her (news to me!!), but now rubs my tummy and says..there's no baby there now mummy!!
Just think; you are doing something to change all of that, so just laugh it off and keep on plan.

Take care

Kerry-Ann
xx

 

[Charisma]

you are all right its just my worst place and its horrible that someone else notices to. hopefully when im at goal, which is a stone away, that jelly belly will be gone lol

 

[ladylite]

You should of told him yeah, and when it was born it was going to live with him in his bedroom.

Dont worry, I think a lot of us over weighty ladies are at a certain stage in pregancy LOL. Just think when you have lost the weight at least you wont have to get up in the night.