This sort of thing has happened to me many times and the thing that annoys me most is not what some sad little idiot has said, but the fact that it devastates me. I know I shouldn't give them a second thought, but I remember every comment from every time this has happened, and they still hurt.
I guess what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You look fantastic in your picture and are obviously very happy in your relationship- well done for moveing on from this so positively, and well done for sharing your sadness with all of us who care- that was positive action (and not running for the nearest chippy, which would have been incredibly tempting)
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