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I was thinking,everyone keeps saying youve lost so much weight and you look so different,nope I cant see it.Of course I can feel it in my clothes,am wearing things I havent worn for a good couple of years.
I sat philosophosing over this(as you do!!)and I thought I know the answer,its not my mind playing tricks,its because i see myself every day,you know how if you live with someone they and you dont notice the weight going on,well I think its the same with it coming off.So I think the only way to see it is photos.If its a photo you are actually looking at someone,yes its you but you can actually see you how others see you then.Its like my avatar,when I look in the mirror I see this great big fat face,yet when I look at that it really doesnt look like me,I cant actually see quite the big fat face I see in the mirror.
I think I ned to try this and see if it works!!
Also Ive noticed although of course I have had the odd sort of look when people havent seen me in ages and Ive put weight on,they havent said 'OMG look how much weight youve put on'......yet lose the same amount of weight.......'OMG look how much weight youve lost.'..so actually people that really care and are friends are actually very kind and do worry about your feelings.(having said that members of my family have felt the need to comment when Ive put weight on in the past,but,theyre allowed cos they are family!!)
xx
I sat philosophosing over this(as you do!!)and I thought I know the answer,its not my mind playing tricks,its because i see myself every day,you know how if you live with someone they and you dont notice the weight going on,well I think its the same with it coming off.So I think the only way to see it is photos.If its a photo you are actually looking at someone,yes its you but you can actually see you how others see you then.Its like my avatar,when I look in the mirror I see this great big fat face,yet when I look at that it really doesnt look like me,I cant actually see quite the big fat face I see in the mirror.
I think I ned to try this and see if it works!!
Also Ive noticed although of course I have had the odd sort of look when people havent seen me in ages and Ive put weight on,they havent said 'OMG look how much weight youve put on'......yet lose the same amount of weight.......'OMG look how much weight youve lost.'..so actually people that really care and are friends are actually very kind and do worry about your feelings.(having said that members of my family have felt the need to comment when Ive put weight on in the past,but,theyre allowed cos they are family!!)
xx