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Im doing this for me and no one else


time to get focused
I am 100% determined now and i am going to do this, i offically lost the love of my life tonight, he came and collected all his stuff and told me he doesnt love me anymore and by the time he left we were both in tears, i told him dont he dare come running back when im thin and beautifull! And thin and beautifull is what i am going to be!!!! Normally at a time like this i comfort eat but food is the last thing on my mind at the moment...cambridge all the way xxx
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Must do it this time
hey pinkmantha sending you (((((big hugs))))),im sorry things didnt work out for you and i want to commend you for not turning to food(dont know if i could be so brave).
Wishing you the very best of luck for cd and post often we are all here to help you out.
Sorry im not more help :(
Hi pinkmantha - good on you - wish I could have been strong like you when things went wrong for me I turned to food so is amazing you arent. I wish you all the luck in the world on your journey and is so right to do it for you and noone else x


time to get focused
je said the classic, he loves me but he is not 'in love with me'!!! only got off the phone to him an hour ago. still aint turned to food, although i was tempted for some chicken when i opened the fridge for the milk :(
are you natalie cassidy or just a coincidence lol xxx


time to get focused
im trying, aint been asleep yet, just went down for a nice pint of flavoured water to try keep me going then may try get some sleep in a bit. its just so hard 2 1/2 years down the drain :( wanted to weigh myself this morning but cant as i been up all night drinking coffee and water and iv prob oput on 10lbs lol x


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Not down the drain, hunni! Please don't think of it like that. You had some great times together, learned lots of things, grew up a little bit - it's what they call life experience, hun. :hug99: that's just how life is sometimes.

Be gentle with yourself, just take things one day at a time. Don't lose weight to 'show him', lose it to show yourself - to show yourself that you are strong and beautiful - that you're worth the effort. Cos you are xx

Hope you manage to grab a few zzzs.