Ive been hiding in shame ;-(

Discussion in 'Cambridge Weight Plan' started by pebble83, 9 October 2009 Social URL.

  1. pebble83

    pebble83 Full Member

    Posts:
    127
    Likes Received:
    3
    Start Weight:
    21st2lb
    Diet:
    cambridge ss
    Why why why why why why why why why why why why why....and why do i do this to myself ????

    I start cd goes great then i **** up ( sorry 2 swear:eek: )... some thing bad happens in my life and i cant cope without the food to make me feel better

    Ive spolen to my lovely cdc. im off cd for now why am i such a faliure
     
  2. Avatar

    MiniMins.com Matched Content

  3. lalliali

    lalliali xPink Princess!x

    Posts:
    223
    Likes Received:
    3
    Diet:
    Cambridge!
    ur not a failure sweety dont think like that! things happen which can effect you but in time u get back on track! im on my 3rd restart eek! n have stuck to it! so it can be done, just take ur time and allow yourself the time to prepare urself again

    p.s. ur not a failure :)
     
  4. Blingbabe

    Blingbabe Back On Track!

    Posts:
    2,064
    Likes Received:
    46
    Start Weight:
    14st13lb
    Current Weight:
    17st5lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st7lb
    Lost(%):
    -2st6lb(-16.27%)
    Diet:
    Slim and Save
    Hello pebble

    I have been wondering how you are for a few days, the daily post just isn't the same without you. I was thinking of private messaging you tonight so its good to see your post.

    This is my third attempt at CD this summer, I failed on the first two.
    I tried lipotrim earlier this year, lost a couple of stones and gave up on it. And I've done Lighterlife as well. I could have a little gang of robots to do my ironing and housework, made out of all the stones and pounds I have lost (but then regained!)

    But somehow something clicked and this time I have been able to do CD, but really taking it one day at a time.

    Sending you dear wishes x
     
  5. pebble83

    pebble83 Full Member

    Posts:
    127
    Likes Received:
    3
    Start Weight:
    21st2lb
    Diet:
    cambridge ss
    thanks guys i will be back x
     
  6. Blingbabe

    Blingbabe Back On Track!

    Posts:
    2,064
    Likes Received:
    46
    Start Weight:
    14st13lb
    Current Weight:
    17st5lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st7lb
    Lost(%):
    -2st6lb(-16.27%)
    Diet:
    Slim and Save
    I remember reading the rules of minimins and quite rightly we are not permitted to ask people to come back or apply any kind of pressure, something I totally agree with. The decision has to come from the individual.
    So all I shall say is that I'm pleased to read your most recent post!
    xx
     
  7. Kira

    Kira Gold Member

    Posts:
    6,578
    Likes Received:
    30
    Start Weight:
    10st8.5lb
    Current Weight:
    10st8.5lb
    Goal Weight:
    8st0lb
    Lost(%):
    0st0lb(0%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge/SnS
    Pebble I know exactly how you feel. I have been where you are too. Like Blingbabe says something clicks. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired and in the end had to take hour by hour day by day. The first 10 days I found extremely hard. Now on day 39 I don't want to undo my hard work. Don't beat yourself up and never give up. Come back when you feel you are ready. x
     
    Tracey1404 likes this.
  8. mrsessex

    mrsessex Gold Member

    Posts:
    2,714
    Likes Received:
    72
    Goal Weight:
    10st7lb
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    Pleeeeeeeeeeease try again :)

    One blip is not the be all and end all of failure
    X
     
  9. *butterfly*

    *butterfly* Silver Member

    Posts:
    940
    Likes Received:
    24
    Start Weight:
    12st6lb
    Current Weight:
    11st11lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st7lb
    Lost(%):
    0st9lb(5.17%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge (ish)
    Feel for you hun, i had a blip last week for a few days and it would have been so easy to give up, and i probably would have done on other diets. Like many have said, often losing weight and keeping it off is more about getting your head in the right place and tackling the underlying eating issues as much as the act of losing weight. I have used food for a million other reasons than nourishment and only i can make that stop, its my choice alone. Maybe just spend a bit of time looking back at posts, and all the reasons you want this. You can do it - when you're ready. We'll all be here for you xx
     
  10. misspinkkat

    misspinkkat Can hug her knees :)

    Posts:
    539
    Likes Received:
    16
    Start Weight:
    16st12lb
    Current Weight:
    12st13lb
    Goal Weight:
    10st7lb
    Lost(%):
    3st13lb(23.31%)
    Diet:
    CD. Ss
    Hunni I'm sure we started roughly the same week roughly, I have honestly messed up one way or another for the first 2 weeks, this week seems to of clicked and today is the longest I have managed to ss 100% I'm sure just like me, you can do it (((hugs))) xx
     
  11. Tracey1404

    Tracey1404 Enjoyin' my journey....

    Posts:
    318
    Likes Received:
    8
    Start Weight:
    18st10lb
    Current Weight:
    15st12lb
    Goal Weight:
    12st7lb
    Lost(%):
    2st12lb(15.27%)
    Diet:
    SS+
    Thoughts are with you. Been where you are many times before ..... I too got sick and tired of being sick and tired, and to date it is working this time. Hasn't been plain sailing, more like plod and push! Hope you move forward again soon. Moving forward becomes easier when you can look back at your journey and see the losses. Tx
     
  12. Witchy

    Witchy ButtERfly

    Posts:
    1,156
    Likes Received:
    30
    Start Weight:
    22st2lb
    Current Weight:
    17st3lb
    Goal Weight:
    12st6lb
    Lost(%):
    4st13lb(22.26%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    Aw Pebbles dont beat yourself up your just like the rest of us human.

    I have to say I feel off the wagon last night im gutted but if something goes wrong thats what I do reach for food, but this time I went for a salad instead of chocolate but its still not a shake.

    My daughter is being bullied at school and school havent dealt with it well in fact they have been awful so my head is wrecked first thing I did was reach for cig whent he kids had gone to bed, I stopped smoking three years ago and then made hubby ordered tea, him a pizza and me a ceasar salad, so im really cross with myself.

    So Pebbles, we will do these things as we go on till we learn to find another way of coping with things but we will get there, when we do these things we need to just have a shake later and carry on and we can do this, especially with all these lovely people supporting us.

    Hope you are ok today xx
     
  13. Fattack

    Fattack Likes to eat

    Posts:
    735
    Likes Received:
    19
    Start Weight:
    15st0lb
    Current Weight:
    11st7lb
    Goal Weight:
    8st8lb
    Lost(%):
    3st7lb(23.33%)
    Diet:
    WeightWatchers
    You are NOT a failure!!! *hugs*

    My colleague delivers training for addicts (drug and alcoholics) and I went to one of his sessions and he was talking about lapse (when you mess up and accept it and continue with your program) and relapse (when you have a blip and then go back into the state you are trying to get away from) and it really identified with me because I know when I mess up, I tend to think "oh well screw it, i may as well give up completely" - and I do. I don't have a lapse of judgment - I relapse totally! This is why diets like WeightWatchers never worked for me - I couldn't have that "one" treat, even though it's allowed, because it would spur me on to have 20! One kit kat makes me feel bad, and then I think, sod it, I've blown it now, I'll have the whole packet, and a multipack of crisps and a tub of ice cream (HAHA). And then I'm in a much worse situation than if I'd just had the one kit kat and gone back on whatever diet I was doing. The trick is to accept that you may fall off the wagon, but to get back on the horse :)

    YOU CAN DO IT!! Get back on that horse!!
     
  14. pebble83

    pebble83 Full Member

    Posts:
    127
    Likes Received:
    3
    Start Weight:
    21st2lb
    Diet:
    cambridge ss
    All your support means so much xx

    Im gunna try really hard at loosing weight soon then i can come back and say hey remember me i lost 3 stone and now im back!
     
  15. kernowmum

    kernowmum Full Member

    Posts:
    99
    Likes Received:
    0
    Start Weight:
    14st8lb
    Current Weight:
    11st7lb
    Goal Weight:
    11st0lb
    Lost(%):
    3st1lb(21.08%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    Hey Peebles

    Not been here for a while... you are not alone and NOT a failure! I was doing OK weekdays while working but a couple of weekend social events saw me blow it!

    I did not believe you could put on 5lbs over a weekend.. I then hated myself, but Monday came around .. always a good day to re-focus and so far I am almost through Saturday.. one glass of red wine being the only slip and as I am on 1,000 not too bad. Hang on in there and get on track when it feel right for you.
     
  16. thinny2be

    thinny2be Full Member

    Posts:
    216
    Likes Received:
    1
    Start Weight:
    18st1lb
    Current Weight:
    12st10lb
    Goal Weight:
    11st0lb
    Lost(%):
    5st5lb(29.64%)
    Diet:
    Finishing on CD
    Aw pebbles I have been there so many times and would have lost this weight a few time over if I had only stuck to it. Come back when your heads in the right place ... we will miss you x
     
Popular Forums
  1. MiniMins.com is a weight loss support community helping each other on their weight loss journey. We have a multitude of forums, from Slimming World and Exante, to Success Stories. Click the logo at the top right to return to the forum home page at any time.
Loading...