tinkerbellsmum
Gold Member
at the moment I work in a shop 16 hrs a week. I've been there 5 years and get on with everyone but it isn't gonna go anywhere.
I also have 2 children 8 and 1. I work at night so I get to spend all day with my youngest but I hardly see my eldest cause I start before she gets in from school and I get back after shes gone to bed. I work 5 days a week so only see her at weekends.
my husband works part time to he does 25hrs we get same amount of working tax as him just doing full time and me staying at home.
I have been told (and checked the facts) that if I stop working we will be better off money wise and figure wise it does look that way.
my problem is i have worked since being 16 (i'm 30 now) no gaps and it feels wrong to me just hand in my notice to not go to another job and to claim benefits (housing and ct) but we would be better off money wise.
if I increase my hours they reduce my working tax so I will be no better off.
the other thing is I want a careea once my youngest goes to school and abit of a break would allow me time to decide what I want to do and study if I need to.
would do you think I should do?
I also have 2 children 8 and 1. I work at night so I get to spend all day with my youngest but I hardly see my eldest cause I start before she gets in from school and I get back after shes gone to bed. I work 5 days a week so only see her at weekends.
my husband works part time to he does 25hrs we get same amount of working tax as him just doing full time and me staying at home.
I have been told (and checked the facts) that if I stop working we will be better off money wise and figure wise it does look that way.
my problem is i have worked since being 16 (i'm 30 now) no gaps and it feels wrong to me just hand in my notice to not go to another job and to claim benefits (housing and ct) but we would be better off money wise.
if I increase my hours they reduce my working tax so I will be no better off.
the other thing is I want a careea once my youngest goes to school and abit of a break would allow me time to decide what I want to do and study if I need to.
would do you think I should do?