SerenityValley
Surgically happy.
I know there are other sections on MM where this might be expected but LL is my home, and you guys have my back, so hopefully it's ok to ask this here instead.
I've not dated for a verrrry long time. Way too long. I've put off dipping my toes in the dating pool, largely down to a lack of confidence, largely based on my weight.
So I've lost the weight, gained many friends, and increased my confidence almost immeasurably. (It's a measure of how much it's improved that I'm asking this in public, rather than just in private).
I'm not sure what I am looking for, if anything at all. I want to date, not necessarily seriouslly at first. I have aprofile up somewhere and am now starting one somewhere else. I'm still quite nervous about approaching women but that's something I'm in the process of fixing because it ain't gonna happen if I don't work on that.
So how do others go about this? What do you look for in a guy online? How can I sell myself? (Apart from at the docks). I don't want to make an faux pas.
Will think about this more and post later but would be interested in any thoughts. I'm quite amazed that I'm wanting to push this forward now - when for months I've been "not ready".
I've not dated for a verrrry long time. Way too long. I've put off dipping my toes in the dating pool, largely down to a lack of confidence, largely based on my weight.
So I've lost the weight, gained many friends, and increased my confidence almost immeasurably. (It's a measure of how much it's improved that I'm asking this in public, rather than just in private).
I'm not sure what I am looking for, if anything at all. I want to date, not necessarily seriouslly at first. I have aprofile up somewhere and am now starting one somewhere else. I'm still quite nervous about approaching women but that's something I'm in the process of fixing because it ain't gonna happen if I don't work on that.
So how do others go about this? What do you look for in a guy online? How can I sell myself? (Apart from at the docks). I don't want to make an faux pas.
Will think about this more and post later but would be interested in any thoughts. I'm quite amazed that I'm wanting to push this forward now - when for months I've been "not ready".