Kate, this is John, Kath's other half, it is true, love at first sight, Kath is now 61, i am 62 we retired when Kath was 60, we have each other, and we are truely in love, have been together a long long time - I am addicted to this site already, Kath is still lieing down with a huge headache, i am drinking water like its going out of fashion. - John