hey frances. well i had the braces and everything to prepare for the surgery years ago but my bf at the time persuaded me not to, asking me if i'd feel like me if i looked different etc. and i chickened out. now i know that of course i will feel like me, i will be me, i just won't have as many problems with eating and biting. my top incisors are sore because i have to tear food off rather than biting it off if that makes sense. and yes. even with this problem i managed to eat just plenty to get me to my current weight!! ha. so now i'm back at square one and i want to get it done as eating is a problem. i am lucky. a lot of people who need this kind of surgery have problems with breathing, sleep apnia, and their palate. i don't have any of this. a lot of it is cosmetic but the main reason is my teeth are sore. i can't bite things. and when asked how to stop this my dentist said 'just don't use them'. not using my top front incisors for the rest of my life didn't seem like such a good idea somehow...
abz xx