kelly22_1
loves minimins
:cry:hiya,
well i found out my dear dad has sleep apnea a few weeks ago, i did notice there was something wrong with him and i made him visit the doctors (he ignores my mum) it is now confirmed apparently he stops breathing 110 times an hour which is really bad, they've told him to lose some weight (he's a big boy) bless him but i've only ever known him like that, even so i'm forever telling my mum to feed him properly as to help him lose weight but it goes in 1 ear and out the other with her.
I'm 29 and as you can see from my profile i'm no skinny minnie. but today i told my dad and i quote "dad i love you but you need to lose weight before we lose you" i thought he was gonna cry bless him. then and i quote "mum stop feeding my dad sh*t and help him lose weight" got it out in the open i had to before i went mad,
now i can see that may look harsh on my lovely mother but honestly guys she does all the shopping and cooking and buying of the "goodies" not my dad he works full time,but it was only on the same day i had my baby 6 months ago that we thought he had had a heart attack,turned out to be a pulled muscle but i would have thought it would have been a good kick up the ar*e for them both but noo,
Anyway we came up with a solution..... i get to do the shopping from now on lol lucky me eh?
so as i embark on my future of LT i get to shop for yummy food (sorry) for my dad, he did offer to join weight watchers with me but i dunno if thats what i want so i said i'd shop and cook if need be. (nose peg required lol)
Maybe i should join weight watchers with my dad what do you all think??
sorry it's long i'm just feeling a bit sad tonight
well i found out my dear dad has sleep apnea a few weeks ago, i did notice there was something wrong with him and i made him visit the doctors (he ignores my mum) it is now confirmed apparently he stops breathing 110 times an hour which is really bad, they've told him to lose some weight (he's a big boy) bless him but i've only ever known him like that, even so i'm forever telling my mum to feed him properly as to help him lose weight but it goes in 1 ear and out the other with her.
I'm 29 and as you can see from my profile i'm no skinny minnie. but today i told my dad and i quote "dad i love you but you need to lose weight before we lose you" i thought he was gonna cry bless him. then and i quote "mum stop feeding my dad sh*t and help him lose weight" got it out in the open i had to before i went mad,
now i can see that may look harsh on my lovely mother but honestly guys she does all the shopping and cooking and buying of the "goodies" not my dad he works full time,but it was only on the same day i had my baby 6 months ago that we thought he had had a heart attack,turned out to be a pulled muscle but i would have thought it would have been a good kick up the ar*e for them both but noo,
Anyway we came up with a solution..... i get to do the shopping from now on lol lucky me eh?
so as i embark on my future of LT i get to shop for yummy food (sorry) for my dad, he did offer to join weight watchers with me but i dunno if thats what i want so i said i'd shop and cook if need be. (nose peg required lol)
Maybe i should join weight watchers with my dad what do you all think??
sorry it's long i'm just feeling a bit sad tonight
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