Rachella
Silver Member
I am nearly at target (when I say nearly I think I'm jinxing it somehow but touch wood I will get there and maintain!) and comments from friends have been mostly positive.
However as my journey has gone on I've noticed a few people saying mildly negative things like 'please dont lose anymore' or 'you look fine now, what's the point in plodding on to lose 2 more pounds?' which some may think are nice comments in a certain way but I think they're meaning something else by their comments if you see what I mean?
Also - this may sound odd - I am finding people at group arent so friendly towards me compared to when I was bigger, granted a lot of people are new but they seem a bit 'off' at times, nevertheless I just dont feel that welcome! Even had a lady ask me last week why I come because I look slim!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Apologies if there's been a similar thread like this before, tried to have a search through to see if there was anything recent about this.
However as my journey has gone on I've noticed a few people saying mildly negative things like 'please dont lose anymore' or 'you look fine now, what's the point in plodding on to lose 2 more pounds?' which some may think are nice comments in a certain way but I think they're meaning something else by their comments if you see what I mean?
Also - this may sound odd - I am finding people at group arent so friendly towards me compared to when I was bigger, granted a lot of people are new but they seem a bit 'off' at times, nevertheless I just dont feel that welcome! Even had a lady ask me last week why I come because I look slim!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Apologies if there's been a similar thread like this before, tried to have a search through to see if there was anything recent about this.
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