Sabotage?

Discussion in 'Cambridge Weight Plan' started by NettyJ, 5 August 2009 Social URL.

  1. NettyJ

    NettyJ Full Member

    Posts:
    243
    Likes Received:
    13
    Start Weight:
    15st12lb
    Current Weight:
    0st11.9lb
    Goal Weight:
    12st7lb
    Lost(%):
    15st0.1lb(94.64%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    Hi there, i have now lost 2st 8lbs. I have approx 10lbs left to lose.

    Has anyone got to this stage and people are saying 'dont lose any more you will look too skinny' or trying to tell you you look great as yuo are ??

    its a form of sabotage!

    thing is that I am beginning to feel as if I do feel ok, and I must look ok, so maybe i will stop!

    i dont want to though and I will carry on !
     
  2. Avatar

    MiniMins.com Matched Content

  3. louisajane222

    louisajane222 Full Member

    Posts:
    125
    Likes Received:
    1
    Start Weight:
    15st0lb
    Current Weight:
    10st6lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st13lb
    Lost(%):
    4st8lb(30.48%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge SS
    yes! omg get it all the time ! I am quite rude now when people say things like this now.. I say its not how I look its how I feel and I still feel like I want to lose another stone.. now shut up! lol! However then the little demons in your head start going..your looking good..you can stop and I fight them no no no! lol!
     
  4. babycake

    babycake Please kick my butt!!

    Posts:
    1,328
    Likes Received:
    13
    Start Weight:
    20st0lb
    Current Weight:
    18st2lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st9lb
    Lost(%):
    1st12lb(9.29%)
    Diet:
    Undecided
    your right they are sabatours. But mine are also my feeders. "go on, one chocky wont do you any harm". but then when i'm big they are the same people that tell me i need to diet.
    IMO these people are unhappy with themselves and just cant face their own demons so have to have a stab at ours !!!!
     
  5. NettyJ

    NettyJ Full Member

    Posts:
    243
    Likes Received:
    13
    Start Weight:
    15st12lb
    Current Weight:
    0st11.9lb
    Goal Weight:
    12st7lb
    Lost(%):
    15st0.1lb(94.64%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    lol its not only just me then !

    go on, a piece of this cake wont hurt surely....No i dont want some thankyou...

    then i think they PITY me while they are sitting there scoffing the cake and looking at me quite happy with my water! awwww poor netty she cant have some cake....i dont want it love !
     
  6. Lexy1972

    Lexy1972 Full Member

    Posts:
    403
    Likes Received:
    15
    Start Weight:
    14st0lb
    Current Weight:
    12st6lb
    Goal Weight:
    11st0lb
    Lost(%):
    1st8lb(11.22%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    When people say to me don't lose anymore I go home strip naked and take a look in the mirror. That gives me the motivation to carry on. We all look better dressed but until I feel happy with myself naked I will NOT stop!!! x
     
  7. NettyJ

    NettyJ Full Member

    Posts:
    243
    Likes Received:
    13
    Start Weight:
    15st12lb
    Current Weight:
    0st11.9lb
    Goal Weight:
    12st7lb
    Lost(%):
    15st0.1lb(94.64%)
    Diet:
    Cambridge
    great tip lexy! thankyou
     
  8. Guru

    Guru Silver Member

    Posts:
    1,127
    Likes Received:
    38
    Start Weight:
    22st10.5lb
    Current Weight:
    19st1.5lb
    Goal Weight:
    10st0lb
    Lost(%):
    3st9lb(16.01%)
    Diet:
    Slimming World
    Use the "my doctor has told me I need to get my BMI to under 25" reason. Who can argue with that?

    I got down to 16st 13 on LL, which by any stretch of the imagination is still enormous. And people were telling me then that I'd lost enough! Stupidly, I listened. Not this time!
     
  9. Sunshine Singer

    Sunshine Singer Dropped White Sugar & Feeling Fantastic

    Posts:
    3,344
    Likes Received:
    77
    Start Weight:
    13st2lb
    Current Weight:
    11st10lb
    Goal Weight:
    9st11lb
    Lost(%):
    1st6lb(10.87%)
    Diet:
    No white sugar
    Only we oursleves can know how we feel. Clothes hide a lot :) I fell into this trap years ago when I first lost a lot of weight and started to gain as I relaxed due to all the compliments and peeps telling me to stop. I try and take them in my stride now, think of them as a bonus and carry on. It's hard tho. xxx
     
Popular Forums
  1. MiniMins.com is a weight loss support community helping each other on their weight loss journey. We have a multitude of forums, from Slimming World and Exante, to Success Stories. Click the logo at the top right to return to the forum home page at any time.
Loading...