chele80
On a mission
I started this out as a thread asking about how supportive your partners are but it's now turned into the below:
Do your OHs support you?
I could kill mine tonight. He's feeling down and depressed and is seeking solace in food and drink.
The food surprisingly I can cope with (more or less), but it's the drinking.
Last weekend he was the same. He said he was going to have one bottle of beer Friday night. He then had over the weekend 3 large bottles of beer, 4 large cans of Stella and 2 bottles of wine.
Tonight he's having 2 large beers and a bottle of wine.
I consider this binge drinking. But woe betide me if I mention this. If I ask him not to he just goes ahead and buys more. So that's tonight and we're supermarket shopping tomorrow and no doubt we'll have the same argument again.
I want my husband to live to his old age. His drinking has always annoyed me. He always turns to it when he has a problem. Gosh, I mean I have a problem with food but in my eyes alcohol is a more serious one, no?
Can you give me any advise???
I just don't know what to do or say anymore
Xx
Do your OHs support you?
I could kill mine tonight. He's feeling down and depressed and is seeking solace in food and drink.
The food surprisingly I can cope with (more or less), but it's the drinking.
Last weekend he was the same. He said he was going to have one bottle of beer Friday night. He then had over the weekend 3 large bottles of beer, 4 large cans of Stella and 2 bottles of wine.
Tonight he's having 2 large beers and a bottle of wine.
I consider this binge drinking. But woe betide me if I mention this. If I ask him not to he just goes ahead and buys more. So that's tonight and we're supermarket shopping tomorrow and no doubt we'll have the same argument again.
I want my husband to live to his old age. His drinking has always annoyed me. He always turns to it when he has a problem. Gosh, I mean I have a problem with food but in my eyes alcohol is a more serious one, no?
Can you give me any advise???
I just don't know what to do or say anymore
Xx