Are you taking your OH surname?
oH and I have been together 12 years and have 2 kids, and as we never were going to get married I said they had to have double barrelled names, his and mine.
Nw he expects us all to change our names to his when we marry. But I think it would be easier to just take the double name like the kids, and he can keep his if he wants since he is so set
He is all about carrying n the family name, and part of me wonders if that's why he wants to marry now, after we had a son, when he didn't after my daughter was born. Plus, for various reasons do with his mother, I don't particularly want to become part of her family, as far as I am see it OH and I are our own family.
oH and I have been together 12 years and have 2 kids, and as we never were going to get married I said they had to have double barrelled names, his and mine.
Nw he expects us all to change our names to his when we marry. But I think it would be easier to just take the double name like the kids, and he can keep his if he wants since he is so set
He is all about carrying n the family name, and part of me wonders if that's why he wants to marry now, after we had a son, when he didn't after my daughter was born. Plus, for various reasons do with his mother, I don't particularly want to become part of her family, as far as I am see it OH and I are our own family.