I have been overweight since childhood so i have so many insecurities because of that, I'm i good enough, i dont do confrontation (protection i guess from childhood, if you dont fight with someone you dont get called names), ive kinda built up a wall around my heart, one of my friends says I reject men before they even have a chance to reject me. I dont mean to be a downer as i'm in a good place, but was just wondering if anyone has advice about shedding the emotion baggage as you are shedding the pounds, thanx as always,,xoxoxo