Week one hubby not helping

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  1. misstazxxx

    misstazxxx Member

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    Iv manger to loose weight but feel my hubby ain't too happy
    He keeps suggesting the scale are wrong ;(
     
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  3. FeeneyFooFoo

    FeeneyFooFoo Full Member

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    Why would he do that???

    Well done on your loss, what plan did u do??? SS can hav some pretty big losses so maybe he's just not aware of that???

    Xx
     
  4. Russiandoll

    Russiandoll Carpe diem

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    Undermining your efforts isn't going to help. A VLCD can produce some big changes very quickly - we have to get used to that but maybe we don't take into account our partners do too. Maybe they're not ready for that rapid change or simply like us the way we are ... it's a comfort zone and our lack of confidence means we stay out of the limelight. Maybe they worry about what could happen if we step IN to the limelight.

    There could be a variety of reasons why he said what he did but you need to sit down and have a talk with him about how much you want this and how it'll benefit your health in the long run. I've heard of men sabotaging their partners' efforts by coercing them into eating etc. Just be aware of the possibility and consider his motives if he starts chipping away at your resolve - he's just scared of the unknown.

    Good luck
     
  5. pandorasinbox

    pandorasinbox Queen Geek

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    Give hubby a kick up the bum. Your scales will be right - VLCDs work very quickly!

    He's probably just jealous. ;)
     
  6. Candlewix

    Candlewix Down boy!

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    Hi misstazxxx

    Take no notice...you are doing this for YOU! ;)
     
  7. Rolly82

    Rolly82 not giving up

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    Tell him to put up or shut up, this is your body and your life. I am sure he is h=just feeling a little insecure that you may run off with your fab new slimmer body :)

    Stay strong x
     
  8. NatashaGabrielle

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    Aw what a shame... get your hubby told!! :) xx
     
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