Interested to see this, since my 20's (40 years ago) I've been up and down, but realise that I've always looked with critical eyes (it's not enough, it's not fast enough, it's off the wrong places, etc etc) This time I REALLY look at myself in the mirror, without criticism, just watching every bit of flesh, overhang and all. I intend to see every IMPROVEMENT, whether it's looser rings, the midriff bulge starting lower down, the stomach overhang being slightly less. I hug every tiny improvement to myself, including needing to tuck my top into my skirt to stop it slipping round, buying a pair of 16 jeans, Large Tights instead of Extra Large, one-size-fits-all here we come. Doing a waistband up easily where it was a struggle, the next notch on a belt, the tightest row on the bra. Looking down and realising that you no longer 'fill' your cup size. Our lift broke down recently. finding I could get to the 4th floor before I had to rest when it used to be the third. Look for all the good bits - however small.