calajul said:Just think how good everyone will feel when they get to their target n all the friends and family are gaining weight, lol
Well looking at your stats, you are doing brilliantly - x Keep your head up and get yourself back out there. We are better than these people!
Your friend would benefit from pushing her husband off a cliff... If he loves her he shouldn't be such an arse about her weight!I think they are all just jealous. I could never imagine being jealous of someone else losing weight. I was really happy for my friend when she lost weight a couple of years ago, and it just made me want to lose weight, but I wasn't ready then.
Now she is pleased for me that I am losing weight, and she is down as she put hers back on and more, and I don't gloat I just tell her she can do it too if that's what she wants and that I love her how she is aswell. Her husband is really horrible to her about her weight and I don't think he realises that instead of making healthy choices, she sneaks food/choc and eats it upstairs as she can't be honest with him or herself anymore
You are all doing amazingly, and I am proud of you all even if your family/friends aren't, well done everyone!!
Your friend would benefit from pushing her husband off a cliff... If he loves her he shouldn't be such an arse about her weight!
I can't eat in front of people, cant even look at food around most people - let alone mention it. Even when shopping I've been known to wait until an aisle's empty so i can pick up food. I also can't eat in silence or at a table as i think it brings too much attention to the fact I'm eating. I've even ran out of shops because there were people there!
And people wonder why we do that?!!!
My OH is hilarious though, he sings if there's any silence on tv and I'm eating 'cos he knows how awkward i get!
There is a fridge magnet saying which I have always liked "if you can't be a good example you will just have to be an awful warning".
So let these dreadful people be an "awful warning" to us all.
We will never be like them.
We will never say unkind things, or anything that might upset someone, however well-meaning we intend to be.
If we do say something that upsets someone, we will immediately apologise - and mean it.
We will be like Thumper - if we can't say something nice then we won't say anything at all.
We will be pleased to see people, and tell them so, and appreciate all their good qualities.
And we will never, ever, be jealous of anyone.
Well, we will try, anyway!
There is a fridge magnet saying which I have always liked "if you can't be a good example you will just have to be an awful warning".
So let these dreadful people be an "awful warning" to us all.
We will never be like them.
We will never say unkind things, or anything that might upset someone, however well-meaning we intend to be.
If we do say something that upsets someone, we will immediately apologise - and mean it.
We will be like Thumper - if we can't say something nice then we won't say anything at all.
We will be pleased to see people, and tell them so, and appreciate all their good qualities.
And we will never, ever, be jealous of anyone.
Well, we will try, anyway!
Its really sad that you do this but I understand completely!
I have a very very rude friend ( male ) and when we went for a meal once and the waitress asked if we wanted dessert he said 'well I'm sure chubby here will'' and the waitress laughed and gave me the menu!!!!!! I also lost 3 stone with SW about 10/11 years ago and when I went to pick up my then little girl from school I happened to mention that I had eaten a cornish pastie and one of the kids' grandads kept going on and on about how I shouldnt cos I would put on all that weight again grrrrr.
But possibly one of the wrost comments I ever had was from a fellow SW member who was a waitress at another meal I went to. We hadnt gone to class for ages and when she came to the table to take our order she asked me in front of about 15 people 'how much weight I had put on?'' since stopping going!
I try to rise above it and as I said, I dont get many comments as I have now lost a lot of weight but I still remember them x
My OH is hilarious though, he sings if there's any silence on tv and I'm eating 'cos he knows how awkward i get!
I never realised losing weight would involve dealing with other peoples issues not just mine!