Wow! NSV!

[Leanne1]

I was just chatting with some locals and one of them took me to one side and asked me out! They said I was looking curvy and sexy now. I had to say no as I prefer my close friends to remain friends but it made me feel good.
I haven't weighed for a while but I have noticed big changes. My clothes are looser and will be replaced soon. Lol. I am full of energy and love how I feel! My boobs don't seem to be getting smaller and I had hoped they would. Grrrr. I do have a waist now though.

 

[ransch]

Congratulations- savour how you feel and remember it next time temptation rears its ugly head!

 

[Kat1e]

Well done - enjoy the compliments

 

[drasim]

That's a result!

 

[ladyfelsham]

Nice one!

 

[BlackRose]

aaaawwwww! That's so lovely!

 

[BlackRose]

what's 'NSV'? Sorry.

 

[Kieran_A]

what's 'NSV'? Sorry.

Non-scale victory, I think.

My boobs don't seem to be getting smaller and I had hoped they would. Grrrr.

No, boobs should not be made smaller

 

[Sapphire]

Brilliant, well done!

 

[Leanne1]

Yes, it is No Scale Victory.
Thanks folks.

 

[mustdoit]

should i get a hat ????!!! xx

 

[Leanne1]

should i get a hat ????!!! xx

LMAO. That would be a big NO!!!!

 

[Dietkitty]

Congrats. Same thing happened to me last night (via text thank God). Still didn't know what to say (I declined...)

Wait, someone called you curvy and sexy?!!

 

[ladyfelsham]

More information please

 

[Leanne1]

More information please

On what? His text or my boobs???

 

[ladyfelsham]

The text, I only do man boobs

 

[Leanne1]

Amen.



Congrats. Same thing happened to me last night (via text thank God). Still didn't know what to say (I declined...)

Didn't it make you feel good to be asked though?

 

[Leanne1]

You were honest. It would have been a lot worse to raise her hopes and then let her crash even further.

 

[drasim]

Yep fair play James ...best thing to do is nip it in the bud before it all spirals out of control - she might feel a little rejected but don't feel guilty about that. Life is full of these things.

Gotta break a few eggs to make an omellete and all that!

 

[ladyfelsham]

Agree with the above, James - you can't force feelings for her when they aren't there. I admire her gumption for asking but you've been very clear with her, so hopefully she will understand and move on.

Maybe you need to speak to your friend Adam and ask him not to encourage her unnecessarily. I'm sure he has the best of motives, sees how hard you are working to lose weight and wants to match you up - but you're not ready and he needs to know that.

Having said all that, it's nice to be fancied - even if it's not by Ms Right (or Ms Right Now lol).