Thank you darlings, I really appreciated it.
Unfortunately the bad news continues today, grandad was admitted to hospital after a seizure and was in a bad way, though he seems to have calmed now. We've just got home from a&e after almost 6 hours. They're not entirely sure what has happened, but for the first time he doesn't know who we (me and mum) are. Despite everything he's been through and all his water infections and confusion he's always known who we were.