MissMiff
Loving & Losing
I can see both sides, as I was morbidly obese..and I've lost over 11 stone and now I have about 5 more stone to lose before I'm where I chose to be.
But if someone wants to lose 3 stone, no one can honestly say it's for vain reasons without delving into the persons mind. They might need an operation, and the drs have told them to lose weight, they might have ailments that weight loss would help in.. Like me, they might have previously lost a whole heap and want to lose the last bit..
Weight loss is hard, bloody hard.. Whether you've 15 stone to lose or 3, and for someone to brush off a person who has a smaller amount to lose just isn't fair.
As for the length of time regarding weight loss.. It shouldn't be judged on time, because how you eat now whilst your losing weight, is how you should eat the rest of your life, otherwise, as ever, the weight piles back on.. This is why i never say I'm on a diet, because I'm truly not, this is my new relationship with food, and i will maintain these new habits for a lifetime hopefully.
Jane xxx
But if someone wants to lose 3 stone, no one can honestly say it's for vain reasons without delving into the persons mind. They might need an operation, and the drs have told them to lose weight, they might have ailments that weight loss would help in.. Like me, they might have previously lost a whole heap and want to lose the last bit..
Weight loss is hard, bloody hard.. Whether you've 15 stone to lose or 3, and for someone to brush off a person who has a smaller amount to lose just isn't fair.
As for the length of time regarding weight loss.. It shouldn't be judged on time, because how you eat now whilst your losing weight, is how you should eat the rest of your life, otherwise, as ever, the weight piles back on.. This is why i never say I'm on a diet, because I'm truly not, this is my new relationship with food, and i will maintain these new habits for a lifetime hopefully.
Jane xxx