cheeselover
Full Member
All good advice , what I would add having been in 2 abusive relationships , one a 23 year marriage and 1 a 3 year relationship is that it's so hard to see that you are being abused whilst your experiencing it , I put up with so much , when your self esteem is continually eaten away , it's hard to see the wood for the trees!
I am now in my first real proper relationship , based in mutual love , respect and support and it's opened my eyes to how wrong the other relationships were !
Only you will know when & if it's time to change things & move forward , no one has your perspective and you will know when the time is right .
Treat yourself as your very best friend , what would you say to her ? What advice would you give her ? Have you considered what YOUR hopes and dreams are for the future ? Have you thought about where you want to be and who you want to be ?
Don't let another person spoil who you can be and where you can go with your life !
You will do the right thing at the right time for you and when you do life will be better .
I did & so can you !
Be strong , one step at a time xxx
I am now in my first real proper relationship , based in mutual love , respect and support and it's opened my eyes to how wrong the other relationships were !
Only you will know when & if it's time to change things & move forward , no one has your perspective and you will know when the time is right .
Treat yourself as your very best friend , what would you say to her ? What advice would you give her ? Have you considered what YOUR hopes and dreams are for the future ? Have you thought about where you want to be and who you want to be ?
Don't let another person spoil who you can be and where you can go with your life !
You will do the right thing at the right time for you and when you do life will be better .
I did & so can you !
Be strong , one step at a time xxx