bigmuthabluffa
Full Member
Ok so am just going to rabbit on because I have to let it all out,
as I am so angry and really want to stuff my face and babysitting so cud do as no-one around to see it............
I started my own business last year as a Make-up Artist who is completely mobile as there was a real gap for this in the market here and it is my passion. I am in my second year of business and it has really picked up as the word gets around, I survive on word of mouth so a good impression is everything.
As I have been getting busier, my hubby and I decided I should email him to his work all my appointments so that he knows what is happening and what times I need him home for the kids etc.
Tonight I had a make-up for a young girls prom and nails for french manicure, I had explained that I would get to her around 5:30 5:45 as I must wait for my hubby to get home and he cycles so is normally just in the door around 5:30,
It came to 5:45 and hubby still not home, I was panicking I rang my client and explained I was still waiting for him to come home and I reassured her I hadn't forgotten.
Finally it came to 5:55 and I ran next door to the neighbours who we rarely see or talk to, and I had to beg her to just watch my boys as hubby is just round corner but I was massively late for an appointment, they agreed and were very nice about it but it was so awkward as we barely know each other really, enough to know they would be ok with my boys, luckily my little one was asleep and my oldest 8 was watching a dvd and was mesmerised. so they didn't even have to come in the house they just left their door open and I told my oldest the situation and if he needed anything to go next door, as I was driving out of the drive, hubby cycled in.
I got to the girl just gone 6:00 and managed to have her ready by 6:50, her limo coming at 7:10 and she had to be strapped into her dress.
On top of this I had promised to baby sit for my best friend who has been having a really rough time and they were going out with her inlaws as it was their anniversary.
I was supposed to be at theirs for 6:45 as they had a reservation at 7pm. I got to her at just 7pm, explained quickly set them on their way and then rang my hubby and exploded at him. I normally try to be calm and see what the reasons were but wait for this, he got held up at work, which never happens, sod's law I guess, and then he decided to cycle to the petrol place and pay our monthly bill, when I asked him why he did that asI had a job this evening he said well I didn't realise that, at which point I blew up all over again what was the bloody point of being so organised and mailing him my schedule if he wasn't going to bloody look at it.
Needless to say there was scilence followed by profuse apologies.
I love my husband dearly and I know it was not intentional as he is so considerate normally but man I haven't been this angry with him for a long time.
SOOOOOOOOOOOO sorry this was so long, but I really needed to get all that out.
Thanks Minimins, if it wasn't for you I would have eaten my best friend out of house and home and ordered in he he
as I am so angry and really want to stuff my face and babysitting so cud do as no-one around to see it............
I started my own business last year as a Make-up Artist who is completely mobile as there was a real gap for this in the market here and it is my passion. I am in my second year of business and it has really picked up as the word gets around, I survive on word of mouth so a good impression is everything.
As I have been getting busier, my hubby and I decided I should email him to his work all my appointments so that he knows what is happening and what times I need him home for the kids etc.
Tonight I had a make-up for a young girls prom and nails for french manicure, I had explained that I would get to her around 5:30 5:45 as I must wait for my hubby to get home and he cycles so is normally just in the door around 5:30,
It came to 5:45 and hubby still not home, I was panicking I rang my client and explained I was still waiting for him to come home and I reassured her I hadn't forgotten.
Finally it came to 5:55 and I ran next door to the neighbours who we rarely see or talk to, and I had to beg her to just watch my boys as hubby is just round corner but I was massively late for an appointment, they agreed and were very nice about it but it was so awkward as we barely know each other really, enough to know they would be ok with my boys, luckily my little one was asleep and my oldest 8 was watching a dvd and was mesmerised. so they didn't even have to come in the house they just left their door open and I told my oldest the situation and if he needed anything to go next door, as I was driving out of the drive, hubby cycled in.
I got to the girl just gone 6:00 and managed to have her ready by 6:50, her limo coming at 7:10 and she had to be strapped into her dress.
On top of this I had promised to baby sit for my best friend who has been having a really rough time and they were going out with her inlaws as it was their anniversary.
I was supposed to be at theirs for 6:45 as they had a reservation at 7pm. I got to her at just 7pm, explained quickly set them on their way and then rang my hubby and exploded at him. I normally try to be calm and see what the reasons were but wait for this, he got held up at work, which never happens, sod's law I guess, and then he decided to cycle to the petrol place and pay our monthly bill, when I asked him why he did that asI had a job this evening he said well I didn't realise that, at which point I blew up all over again what was the bloody point of being so organised and mailing him my schedule if he wasn't going to bloody look at it.
Needless to say there was scilence followed by profuse apologies.
I love my husband dearly and I know it was not intentional as he is so considerate normally but man I haven't been this angry with him for a long time.
SOOOOOOOOOOOO sorry this was so long, but I really needed to get all that out.
Thanks Minimins, if it wasn't for you I would have eaten my best friend out of house and home and ordered in he he