Banafell
Full Member
Hi Everyone,
I'd really like some advice from you all.... this isn't CD related at all but didn't know who else to ask.
I'm going into hospital to have my four wisdom teeth out on Friday (short notice appointment) - almost a year ago to the day I went into hospital for another operation, my Mum, Dad and Brother all came with me and waited for me to come back from the op, my fiance said that he didn't want to come because he had to work (he works from home, for himself) fair enough as he said he'd look after me when I came back from hospital, but then arranged to go away to Amsterdam with friends. I got upset as he said he'd look after me but made alternative arrangements, after an argument he cancelled the trip and stayed to look after me. (I wouldn't mind if he had it booked before my op but to book it when he knew I was going in for a - fairly major- op hmm)
So fast forward about a year, and yes I'm only going in to have my wisdom teeth out but I'm really scared, the same thing happened again, Mum, Dad and my brother are all really supportive and are staying in the room whilst I have my op again but my fiance this morning has told me he's going out sailing on Saturday..... I'll be home Friday after the op and won't be able to drive for 48 hours afterwards, so can't drive myself to my parents, so will be alone in the house whilst he's out. I feel that if he really cared for me he'd leave sailing just this once (he goes out nearly every weekend) and look after me. Or am I just being precious?
All thoughts welcome....
I'd really like some advice from you all.... this isn't CD related at all but didn't know who else to ask.
I'm going into hospital to have my four wisdom teeth out on Friday (short notice appointment) - almost a year ago to the day I went into hospital for another operation, my Mum, Dad and Brother all came with me and waited for me to come back from the op, my fiance said that he didn't want to come because he had to work (he works from home, for himself) fair enough as he said he'd look after me when I came back from hospital, but then arranged to go away to Amsterdam with friends. I got upset as he said he'd look after me but made alternative arrangements, after an argument he cancelled the trip and stayed to look after me. (I wouldn't mind if he had it booked before my op but to book it when he knew I was going in for a - fairly major- op hmm)
So fast forward about a year, and yes I'm only going in to have my wisdom teeth out but I'm really scared, the same thing happened again, Mum, Dad and my brother are all really supportive and are staying in the room whilst I have my op again but my fiance this morning has told me he's going out sailing on Saturday..... I'll be home Friday after the op and won't be able to drive for 48 hours afterwards, so can't drive myself to my parents, so will be alone in the house whilst he's out. I feel that if he really cared for me he'd leave sailing just this once (he goes out nearly every weekend) and look after me. Or am I just being precious?
All thoughts welcome....