Littleslimmingbee
Gold Member
- my mother hasnt cooked me a meal, cleaned my room or done my washing since i was 13!
and as for asking for money, so you should. We all know running a house isnt cheap, and she might aswell learn now before she lands herself in some serious crap when she thinks she can move out and still continue living this way.
also, so what, because your sons disabled you shuld pay her hourly? i dont think so. Im one of seven, and have 7 neices. i look after them all, far more than i have time too sometimes, or the energy atm lol.. but i still do it, and i would never concider asking for anything in return! they are my family.. thats what you do!
your daughter needs a swift kick up the ass.. sorry but i think both her and her boyfriend are taking the piss.. you should tell her, he doesnt stay over anymore, and she decides whether shes going to continue living with you, because if she is then you expect somthing monthly.. remind her that your not doing this to be mean, your doing it because you simply cannot afford it financially anymore, and you have to put the entire family first, not just her anymore.
sorry, but thats what i think!
xxx
and as for asking for money, so you should. We all know running a house isnt cheap, and she might aswell learn now before she lands herself in some serious crap when she thinks she can move out and still continue living this way.
also, so what, because your sons disabled you shuld pay her hourly? i dont think so. Im one of seven, and have 7 neices. i look after them all, far more than i have time too sometimes, or the energy atm lol.. but i still do it, and i would never concider asking for anything in return! they are my family.. thats what you do!
your daughter needs a swift kick up the ass.. sorry but i think both her and her boyfriend are taking the piss.. you should tell her, he doesnt stay over anymore, and she decides whether shes going to continue living with you, because if she is then you expect somthing monthly.. remind her that your not doing this to be mean, your doing it because you simply cannot afford it financially anymore, and you have to put the entire family first, not just her anymore.
sorry, but thats what i think!
xxx