Blonde Logic
Yes. You can.
When I came in from weighing in tonight, I was slighlty deflated. I lost 2.8 pounds, which was the same amount I lost last week. Last week I was dissappointed, but still happy it was a loss, if you get me - but tonight to have it the same, I was a bit gutted. I know its down, and I am happy about that, and I know its nearly three pounds, and I am happy about that - and I have known all along the early weeks of bbig losses will slow down.
Saying all that, I was STILL dissappointed. This is hard - week in and week out watching others tucking in to nice meals, and then a 'small' loss. It feels small just because I suppose there is so much to go and I just want to get there.
Anyway, I came in slightly bummed out. My husbands reaction to this to tell me to stop feeling sorry for myself or I will just start eating again. Now I know he is dog-tired. He worked nights last night and came home at 7am and got stuck in to the garage, so has had very little sleep in the last 24 hours. So I am attributing it to his being tired. But it still upset me.. All I said back was "I beg your pardon!!! I will NOT be eating again!!!" But now that he has gone to bed, its made me feel bad. I need to tell him that upset me and did not feel very supportive.
7 weeks of abstaining, and it was the first moment I have complained - I didn;t even complain really - was just bummed. So I think I have done pretty darn well with my attitude staying positive and thuoght that was uncalled for.
He is usually very supportive, and he did not mean it from a bad place - he was trying to help I guess....but I think I need to tell him in the morning that hurt my feelings.
Am I being too sensitive? It was also a kind of heavy group chat tonite. I dont know.:sigh:
Saying all that, I was STILL dissappointed. This is hard - week in and week out watching others tucking in to nice meals, and then a 'small' loss. It feels small just because I suppose there is so much to go and I just want to get there.
Anyway, I came in slightly bummed out. My husbands reaction to this to tell me to stop feeling sorry for myself or I will just start eating again. Now I know he is dog-tired. He worked nights last night and came home at 7am and got stuck in to the garage, so has had very little sleep in the last 24 hours. So I am attributing it to his being tired. But it still upset me.. All I said back was "I beg your pardon!!! I will NOT be eating again!!!" But now that he has gone to bed, its made me feel bad. I need to tell him that upset me and did not feel very supportive.
7 weeks of abstaining, and it was the first moment I have complained - I didn;t even complain really - was just bummed. So I think I have done pretty darn well with my attitude staying positive and thuoght that was uncalled for.
He is usually very supportive, and he did not mean it from a bad place - he was trying to help I guess....but I think I need to tell him in the morning that hurt my feelings.
Am I being too sensitive? It was also a kind of heavy group chat tonite. I dont know.:sigh: