Lisaberry
Silver Member
It's my 30th tomorrow and I had planned to go to lunch with hubs, the kids and my parents.
Husband has just told me he's invited his parents too and I'm really upset so he's now in a major Sh*t with me as obviously that means I hate them.
Thing is, at the mo I just want to spend as much time with my parents as poss. My pa has cancer and although we hope and stay positive, we just don't know what the future holds.
Also, even after 8 years together I just don't feel comfortable around the in laws. I'm as quiet as a mouse and just can't relax.
I was really looking forward to tomorrow... Pa is really having a hard time with his radiotherapy at the mo so I'd even chosen a pub to go to that he loves as it serves his fave ale, knowing he's excited was making me really look forward to it.
Now, dinner will be done, mum and I will be quiet and no doubt mum will get 'tutty' towards pa after he's had a few and says things mum wishes he wouldn't around company.
I'm in floods at the mo, I'm being made out to be such a bad person by hubs but he doesn't understand. He doesn't have the same kind of relationship with his parents that I do mine and obviously he doesn't know how hard it is when a parent is ill
Am I being unreasonable? Don't sugar coat it for me, if you think I am then tell me and I'll snap out of it!
Husband has just told me he's invited his parents too and I'm really upset so he's now in a major Sh*t with me as obviously that means I hate them.
Thing is, at the mo I just want to spend as much time with my parents as poss. My pa has cancer and although we hope and stay positive, we just don't know what the future holds.
Also, even after 8 years together I just don't feel comfortable around the in laws. I'm as quiet as a mouse and just can't relax.
I was really looking forward to tomorrow... Pa is really having a hard time with his radiotherapy at the mo so I'd even chosen a pub to go to that he loves as it serves his fave ale, knowing he's excited was making me really look forward to it.
Now, dinner will be done, mum and I will be quiet and no doubt mum will get 'tutty' towards pa after he's had a few and says things mum wishes he wouldn't around company.
I'm in floods at the mo, I'm being made out to be such a bad person by hubs but he doesn't understand. He doesn't have the same kind of relationship with his parents that I do mine and obviously he doesn't know how hard it is when a parent is ill
Am I being unreasonable? Don't sugar coat it for me, if you think I am then tell me and I'll snap out of it!