Kuromi Jenkins
Silver Member
My partner signed up and started last Fri so is on day 4. It started off well and the first few days went quite well despite us being out around food a lot.
However, he's already planning on having "a day off" this coming Sunday which would be his day 9. I've stayed 100% committed since starting 12 days ago even when he sat next to me eating and talking about food all the time during my first few days.
I'm actually quite annoyed by this as I feel I'm taking this seriously and he's not, so come Sunday instead of joining me in abstaining from beer and food when we go out with the family like I have for the last 2 weeks, he's going to eat and I'll be the only one going without again, sitting watching everyone else.
I understand it's his choice and I can't make him do this but I did think he was going to be a bit more supportive and on track doing it with me, especially being as I'm 8 days ahead of him so have been able to offer advice and support, on what to expect and try to keep him positive.
He insists that he doesn't eat all the rubbish he usually eats because he's bored but because he likes the taste of food. Don't we all?
I'm finding I'm becoming increasingly frustrated about him going on about it, as I'm going through it too but decided to just get on with it.
Has anyone else had this issue with their "diet buddy"?
However, he's already planning on having "a day off" this coming Sunday which would be his day 9. I've stayed 100% committed since starting 12 days ago even when he sat next to me eating and talking about food all the time during my first few days.
I'm actually quite annoyed by this as I feel I'm taking this seriously and he's not, so come Sunday instead of joining me in abstaining from beer and food when we go out with the family like I have for the last 2 weeks, he's going to eat and I'll be the only one going without again, sitting watching everyone else.
I understand it's his choice and I can't make him do this but I did think he was going to be a bit more supportive and on track doing it with me, especially being as I'm 8 days ahead of him so have been able to offer advice and support, on what to expect and try to keep him positive.
He insists that he doesn't eat all the rubbish he usually eats because he's bored but because he likes the taste of food. Don't we all?
I'm finding I'm becoming increasingly frustrated about him going on about it, as I'm going through it too but decided to just get on with it.
Has anyone else had this issue with their "diet buddy"?