lynica
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donna88 said:I don't really know what to suggest. It's hard when your heart just isn't in it. But maybe try writing a list of reasons you don't want to keep gaining weight. Remember how good you felt at your lowest and also make a list of your favourite on plan meals and write a meal plan for a few days. That way getting back on it won't seem a chore as you'll be eating foods you love.
Thanks Donna you are so right I've wrote out different favourite dinners I usually have the same breakfast and lunch at work so they are covered thanks huni for posting its so hard doing it on your own :/) x
Had a great morning, stayed at little ones school to help out. Going to do the library for them on a friday and his teacher said whenever I want to pop in and help out I can do.
Sounds like a great plan x
debtin said:Don't get upset as you will be in control soon enough. As you know I have been the same so what I am doing is only buying things that I know are "ok" to eat. I ignored the kettle chips and bought quavers, bought the other half crunchies instead of mars bars. My logic being that if I do go on a binge then at least I am limiting the damage. It is so hard and I really do sympathize with you. What I would suggest Ronnie is starting to do some walking. Get outdoors for some fresh air to blow away the cob webs. This alone will make you feel better. Then start each day meal by meal. At least this way you will feel in control.
Is it time of the month? Are you weighing in on your normal day?
You know you can do it, you just need to get back in the zone and focus. Why don't you do the shred?
Do you attend group?
Hi deb thanks for reply and support not sure I'm ready to shred again lol but going try and walk this week at least once ( gotta start somewhere)
I don't go to group I have done it at home by myself only got minis as support so its hard when you stray of track. Had a better day yesterday so can only go one day at a time xx
pobel said:No big words of wisdom i'm afraid but if you can manage out for a walk it will make you feel better x. I find that if i write down a plan then it makes me feel better, factor in treats for your syns at particular low points to your day so coffee and biscuit after your diner at night! Half a stone isn't the end of the world, it will be lots of fluid and come off in no time at all if you manage to get back on track today x
Thanks Hun managed to stay on track yesterday had 2 little chocs (3s) and a chic biscuit (3.5s) so a step in the right direction and no where near as bad as it has been over the weekend so happy with myself
Thanks for advice and support really appreciate it xx
downtownsuzie said:Lynica, I agree with pobel x
Having a written down plan makes me feel so much more ready to take everything on after a day or 2 of eating being back on track and you will feel so much better - I bet you energy will pick up as well
I'm going to write a plan tomorrow once all my shopping has been delivered want to be food buddies for a week? I need to be good this week as its the only few days I have without birthday celebrations! x
Hi Annie thanks Hun that be great food buddies as I've said above managed to stay on track yesterday and have written 7 dinners down for the week.
Today I've got oats so simple for breakfast with grapes ,salad for lunch ( have the same every day love it) and salmon and Philly pasta and veg for tea. Got an apple and orange for snacks going try have 4 sf juices and 4 teas and no chocolate !!
What's your plan??
Thanks for your help
Thanks ladies can't tell you how happy you all made me feel when I read all your replies was beginning to have a mini meltdown feeling on my own but knew I'd get help here just need to get back the habit of posting more often so the inspiration and motivation of everyone inspires me again thankyou
Here's to a on plan day !! x