Blonde Logic
Yes. You can.
Hmmm. I have been noticing something lately, and it is a bit of a mixed bag.
On one hand, what I am about to say is very nice, and feels nice, and has been missed. On the other hand, makes me angry, and sad.
I have noticed, in the last few weeks, I am getting more attention from men. From all walks of life, in all different situations.
Men in queue in stores will strike up a conversation. Men at the gas stations want to talk about my car, or my bike. And men are holding doors open more often then every before.
Why? Because I am not morbidly obese anymore? What would have been so awful for them to have carried out those same niceties before? Am I not still driving the same cool car, or riding the same cool bike they all want to talk about now? Is it not just as chivelrous a gesture to hold the door for an obese woman as a slimmer one?
I do enjoy it, yes. It feels nice. But it is somewhat disheartening at the same time.
ANyone else notice this? Or feel like this?
On one hand, what I am about to say is very nice, and feels nice, and has been missed. On the other hand, makes me angry, and sad.
I have noticed, in the last few weeks, I am getting more attention from men. From all walks of life, in all different situations.
Men in queue in stores will strike up a conversation. Men at the gas stations want to talk about my car, or my bike. And men are holding doors open more often then every before.
Why? Because I am not morbidly obese anymore? What would have been so awful for them to have carried out those same niceties before? Am I not still driving the same cool car, or riding the same cool bike they all want to talk about now? Is it not just as chivelrous a gesture to hold the door for an obese woman as a slimmer one?
I do enjoy it, yes. It feels nice. But it is somewhat disheartening at the same time.
ANyone else notice this? Or feel like this?