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as I was saying.......................
Thanks for sharing that, I really apprechiate it, I will try and condense my story for you, as its quite long!
I got married in 2003 and had been ttc since 2002, with no luck, was referred to fertlitiy clinic in April 2005, where I had all the usual tests etc, all test came back clear, with the exception of sperm (low mobility and slow swimmers) had hsg (very, very painful) and told to loose weight.
Due to return for follow up appointment in the August, but found out I was pregnant in the July, had baby girl (Abbie) March 2006.
Have been ttc again since March 2007, no luck, had all test again 21 day test showed my levels are only 4, husbands swimmers are low again, and have my first appointment with (new) fertlilty consultant on the 15th September, GP told me I had to loose 2 stone before they would see me, but know they will just send me away to loose more! I saw the consultants "nurse" who took a history from me, about two months ago and she told me (quite matter of factly) that I have scarring of the fallopian tubes (no-one had every told me this!) so have been told to expect an internal scan in September, with a view to another hsg and a possible laparoscopy, not holding out much hope for clomid this time, as "she" (the consultant) apparently likes everyone to be no more than bmi 30, so I am up **** creek!
Trying this as a last resort, to minimise, the humiliation and lectures (why is weight blamed on everything?!!)
But tbh, I was about 2 stone lighter than I am now when I fell pregnant with my daughter, just starting to panic a bit now as I am 38 next year, I know I should be happy with one child, and I really am, I want to give it my best shot for another! x