Oh hunni, I'd have been raging given you've been talking about it everyday! It's funny how people react when you start to do something for yourself. I remember the last time been told how unwell I looked, that I looked grey. Rubbish! I looked great, I was also told I'd lost too much and was looking to thin, I was still 2 1/2 stone away from target!! Your OH is right, it's jealousy. If she does it again, tell her you appreciate it but she'll have to eat it by herself. That'll get the message across. Sorry hunni, someone with your best interests at heart wouldn't have brought that chinese, she might be a good friend in other way but you'll have to avoid the whole food issue with her and put her straight in case she wrecks your diet for good. xxxx