I agree, but I was the fat child! Am not the fat adult but getting smaller. My sister had a supermodel body and a curvy size 6/8 then a tall size 10 by 25yrs. She really did have the whole package, but after 5 years of marriage she called up to say she was horrified she was in a size 12 dress! Went to topshop and she couldn't get into anything below a size 14. Knowing my sister, I knew she was struggling and encouraged her to use the works gym, all the while I would be giving the phone advice with a cake in my hand! For her personally, being a tight 12 was too heavy and it was causing problems. For me being a size 36 years ago was a problem. It is all a matter of comfort in our own skins. I am wiser and older, she is skinnier and happier. I would never call her disgusting over her weight, or anyone else. I think it is my little green monster of jealousy that gets upset when I hear people sometimes referring to their weight loss being so minimal and using such harsh words o describe themselves, thinking 'Gosh, if ONLY I have 2 stone. or 1.5stone to lose....but that is my problem, not anyone elses. All our journeys are different and difficult in their own ways x