parfittaroles
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Dyjh laziness lol. Need to move my bum!
Shirleen said:Actually I didn't take offence and if truth be told I'm actually struggling with life in general I'm thinking I need anti- depressants again. However I feel it may have a physical cause and I'm trying to get up the bottle to ask my doctor if it may be this. But I don't want to come across as a google nutter!
Lol!
DYJHI when you realise you are entering the menopause - feel like absolute crap and am tearful and short with everyone. Can I curl up and cry now??
DYJHI when you realise you are entering the menopause - feel like absolute crap and am tearful and short with everyone. Can I curl up and cry now??
Actually I didn't take offence and if truth be told I'm actually struggling with life in general I'm thinking I need anti- depressants again. However I feel it may have a physical cause and I'm trying to get up the bottle to ask my doctor if it may be this. But I don't want to come across as a google nutter!
Lol!
**punk*~*star** said:When you finally get to the day you've been so looking to (friends hen party) spent weeks sorting outfit etc to be there an hour & start with gastrointeritis (son had it Thursday) in the pub loos, so bad hubby had to drive a 2 hour round trip to collect me then listen to me been sick in a bag! I am now tucked up in bed & very happy about it but I really should be downing shots & having an awesome time x
On the plus side my friend & her family were lovely & not at all upset about me having to leave even though I felt awful about it
mrstore said:Oh no!!!! That's awful, poor you!!! Hope you feel better soon!!! My OH wouldn't have been able to listen to me throwing up without being sick himself lol
Shirleen said:We had Gastroenteritis as a family a few years ago, I was throwing up (and the rest), then cleaning up then I ran round the house making sure everyone had a drink then collapsing until it all started again! My husband still talks in awe of how I did it!!! But to be fair he was so bad he collapsed twice and I had to call an ambulance, then the GP!
DYJHIW you're tired out and ready for bed...then you realise you stripped it earlier and never re-made it!
I've been there with feeling suicidal.
We were in Las Vegas and we were on top floor with balcony.One day I was on the balcony and looked down.Thought to myself what would it be like to jump.All these thoughts went through my head about how I wouldn't know how much it hurt as I would be dead when I hit the ground.As I was looking down hubby came onto balcony and started talking.I stopped what I was thinking and walked back in.
Every time he went out on the balcony I would stay in the room as I knew I didn't want to do it but felt crazy enough to do it.(if that makes sense).Hubby kept asking me why I didn't want to come and sit on balcony.I made an excuse it was too hot for me.
When we got back to England I sat searching on internet for hours about menopause moods,thoughts etc.
I went Dr and I had a blood test to confirm I was peri-menopausal.He asked how I felt that my years of having kids were coming to an end.I told him they finished 20 years ago when I was sterilised.So he offered me anti's I told him no I would go and do some research.
So I have been taken Evening Primrose oil with cold liver oil capsules,a vitamin tablet,vitamin d tablet,iron tablet and a menopace tablet for a few years now and these have worked for me with mood swings etc.How do I know?Because 4 years ago I moved and didn't take them for a while and had all the suicidal feelings,mood swings,hot flushes.
I gave up working 60 hours a week and just worked 15 so I had something to do but not be stressed over trying to do everything (work,kids,shopping cleaning house)I still get hot flushes but everything else has almost disappeared.
There comes a time in your life when you have to sit down and decide enough is enough.And I'm glad I did.It has been 5 years since I started taking it easy.Gave up work last year.Yeah I miss my money but enjoying the rest of my life is more important then running myself down into the ground.
Don't know where this has come from as I haven't had a drink.
When you finally get to the day you've been so looking to (friends hen party) spent weeks sorting outfit etc to be there an hour & start with gastrointeritis (son had it Thursday) in the pub loos, so bad hubby had to drive a 2 hour round trip to collect me then listen to me been sick in a bag! I am now tucked up in bed & very happy about it but I really should be downing shots & having an awesome time x
On the plus side my friend & her family were lovely & not at all upset about me having to leave even though I felt awful about it