Don't you just hate it when....

[peacelily]

DYJHIW you get slated yet again on here for trying to help! I can now understand why so many long standing members refuse to post and eventually-I mean look what happened to Circes
I think I need to have a break from here for a while as its starting to get to me-I have been using it to help me focus and keep on track, by reading other people's posts and commenting/helping/suggesting, whatever you wanna call it-but now I'm at the stage where it doesn't seem worth it! It's not fair that someone who hasn't been around that long can treat people badly for no reason

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I feel sad that you have been treated badly too. I really don't understand why folk do this on the site. I've noticed lots of people disappearing too. I really hope you feel you can come back if you take a break but I would have to agree that if I was being treated badly I'd be reluctant to join in too. Mins is a great site for help with things and its in the rules that people shouldn't be disrespectful. Hope you can come back if you take a break will miss your comments. :-(

 

[Happy Holidays]

DYJHIW you get slated yet again on here for trying to help! I can now understand why so many long standing members refuse to post and eventually-I mean look what happened to Circes
I think I need to have a break from here for a while as its starting to get to me-I have been using it to help me focus and keep on track, by reading other people's posts and commenting/helping/suggesting, whatever you wanna call it-but now I'm at the stage where it doesn't seem worth it! It's not fair that someone who hasn't been around that long can treat people badly for no reason

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It really irritates me when, as you did, try to help & then get slated. People need to remember it's a forum for helping people, not for people to tell you what you want to hear.

That's why many people don't post because they are so fed up of others taking it the wrong way & having a go.

You always offer good advice, that other person isn't worth missing out on here.

 

[l0v3child]

Just read the post, how rude of the other poster! You were being helpful, dont sweat it chicka x

 

[ScarlettStar86]

Agree with all the above Jo, you were doing the right thing and the other poster in question had no right to do that! She seems to have a bit of a bee in her bonnet- with any luck it will sting soon! X

 

[Jenna88]

Dyjhiw you've been in a school you're subbing in for 20 minutes, the kids arrive in another 20 minutes and their usual teacher hasn't arrived yet to give you the layout of the day!

 

[ScarlettStar86]

I report people all the time. Why should individual people think that they have special rights to do things that are dangerous or silly, and spoil it for everyone else.

*hides from jezzi*

 

[ScarlettStar86]

I was about to advise someone to save all 105 weekly syns for Saturday night whilst they swim with sharks in an electrified pool but maybe I'll reconsider now...

 

[Princess_Stevie]

That'd be fine as long as they have 1/3 Superfree on the side

Or a bowl of fruit salad afterwards!

 

[luce28]

... you wake up at am with intense abdominal pains, get home from A&E at 6am, then have to back to hospital at 10am for more tests. Think I have kidney stones, what a nightmare.

 

[ScarlettStar86]

... you wake up at am with intense abdominal pains, get home from A&E at 6am, then have to back to hospital at 10am for more tests. Think I have kidney stones, what a nightmare.

oh no! never had them but heard they arent nice, hope you feel better soon xx

 

[Shirleen]

You know the exercise is going to give you a gain! And it hurts!!! Lol

 

[jamjar15]

... you wake up at am with intense abdominal pains, get home from A&E at 6am, then have to back to hospital at 10am for more tests. Think I have kidney stones, what a nightmare.

Oh no!

 

[solo12]

When you have just seen the BIGGEST spider you have ever seen in the kitchen! Have had to turn oven off & close door till hubby comes home I cannot physically stop shaking or crying...

 

[*Emsie*]

When you have just seen the BIGGEST spider you have ever seen in the kitchen! Have had to turn oven off & close door till hubby comes home I cannot physically stop shaking or crying...

Hope its sorted now and you have calmed down xx

 

[solo12]

Hope its sorted now and you have calmed down xx

Nope, it did a runner before hubby got home the little sod! Have calmed down but keep itching & thinking things are running I though my spider fear was getting better but honestly that one today scared me sick!

 

[ScarlettStar86]

dyjhiw the dress you have for your brothers wedding just doesnt feel right had it ages, taken it in and got a new ultimate strapless bra to go with it but i just dont feel like it looks nice. might be brave later and take a pic to show you...need an honest opinion!

 

[ScarlettStar86]

Look a bit pasty! Obv hair and makeup will be done too- also the bra I got came up blimmin small so I will be changing it for next back size up which will hopefully sort the overhang of back fat just don't think it looks nice, not how I expected it to look as I should have been well at target by now, still got 9.5lbs to go....












Honest opinions please. And also to help complete the pic this is how I'm doing my hair..

 

[breeza]

Look a bit pasty! Obv hair and makeup will be done too- also the bra I got came up blimmin small so I will be changing it for next back size up which will hopefully sort the overhang of back fat just don't think it looks nice, not how I expected it to look as I should have been well at target by now, still got 9.5lbs to go....

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<img src="http://www.minimins.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=64145"/>

Honest opinions please. And also to help complete the pic this is how I'm doing my hair..

<img src="http://www.minimins.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=64146"/>

<img src="http://www.minimins.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=64147"/>

<img src="http://www.minimins.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=64148"/>

I too think the dress is lovely and you look lovely in it
Your hair looks lovely too, and I am being totally honest as well.

Stop panicking and enjoy the day xxx

 

[juicygooseface]

gorgeous! really suits you xxx

 

[ScarlettStar86]

Honestly honestly, it's a beautiful dress and it really suits you. And the hair! With the right bra it'll be perfect x

(and I'm not just saying that, I hate being told I look good in something and then seeing awes full pics later, so that's an honest opinion)

I too think the dress is lovely and you look lovely in it
Your hair looks lovely too, and I am being totally honest as well.

Stop panicking and enjoy the day xxx

thank you both so much. xx I loved it when i got it but I dunno, just think I thought my body would change more and I would magically be happy with myself by this point! Doesn't help that my OH doesn't like to comment on stuff I wear as he doesn't want to say the wrong thing, but equally he will never really say I look nice which would make a big difference!
thank you again xx