Sammi N
Anything but Regular
Well I got the shock of my life yesterday. Me and the other half were sitting outside in the sun having a drink (treated myself to a sparkling water lol) and was chatting away with eachother. All of a sudden he comes out with "are you having a fat day today sweetheart?" I replied "Why, do I look like I am" His repsonse was "Yes!" He then proceeded to say that he didn't mean it horribly but I apparently didn't do myself any justice in the top I was wearing. He said that 2 weeks previous I looked really slim and that I look bigger at the moment. Even tho I have only lost not gained any weight, 4lbs loss since in fact. I was gobsmacked, I then had to go and look in a full length mirror and all the confidence I felt about myself evaporated. I don't know if I saw in the mirror what he was describing, which was "extra role around the middle" or whether his comments made me convince myself I had ballooned.
I couldn't react badly as he said it with such a sincere calm tone that I was more confused at his comments then anything, I really don't know how to handle the situation. I really don't want to lose faith in myself or the diet. I thought I had achieved more than I could ever imagine seeing as I have not been this size since my early teens.
Had to tell you all as I am still in a state of numbness.
I couldn't react badly as he said it with such a sincere calm tone that I was more confused at his comments then anything, I really don't know how to handle the situation. I really don't want to lose faith in myself or the diet. I thought I had achieved more than I could ever imagine seeing as I have not been this size since my early teens.
Had to tell you all as I am still in a state of numbness.