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Feeling more comfortable around Hubby??? !!!

sianock

Gonna be who I wanna be!
S: 18st10.0lb G: 10st0.0lb
#1
I just wonder if anyone else feels like me???? The more weight I am losing the more tactile I am becoming with hubby again.... He is the same Height as me and 3 months ago I was 6 stone (yes 6) heavier than him. I didnt realise until now what an effect my weight had on our releationship. I never initiated sex because I never felt 'sexy'. I wouldnt like to lay on him for cuddles, because I felt too 'Heavy'. I wouldnt drape my arms and legs over him because I didnt want to make him uncomfortable as I was so 'Big'. He never, ever said any of those things to me, he absolutely adores me, but thats how I felt inside.

Now he says I cant keep off him. I am now only 3 stone heavier than him now, and we are all over each other (much to the kids disgust!!! its so not cool for mums and dads to kiss!!!)

I think its great and I feel much more content too.

Does anyone else feel like this????

Sian XXXX:):)
 
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Kippaxmum

Back on the wagon
S: 14st0lb C: 13st3lb G: 10st7lb BMI: 31.8 Loss: 0st11lb(5.61%)
#2
Yep, 2 years ago I was about 3 stone heavier than my hubby (hes in the 14s I was in the 17s) I have lost 5 stone now and am in the 11's and things are so much better ;-)

Go for it girl, sod the kids - how do they think they arrived pmsl

xxx
 
#3
Yes i was only lbs havier then him and love being lighter then him now and it has done wonders for us and our relationship - es always loved no matter what size i have been but our sex life tells me different and were much more intimate now. My kids are to young too notice.
 
S: 18st0lb C: 16st12lb G: 12st2lb BMI: 30.3 Loss: 1st2lb(6.35%)
#4
i so want this to happen for me.... my and hubby have known each other 18 years and been married for just over 1 and he has never seen me naked!!! im too scared to show him incase i disgust him just as much as it disgusts me, even though he has never made me feel like that. he says im fine as i am! i just want for him to look at me and think wow, shes my wife! got the funniest feeling to that he will be like a dog on heat lol ( he never initiates it ) and he will have me body guarded everytime i go out..... well i like to think so lol x
 

JaxieD

Silver Member
S: 15st0lb C: 15st0lb G: 12st0lb BMI: 36 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
#5
Yep! It's a great feeling!! My libido has come back:D. Thought it had packed up and left town!! My husband also loved me no matter what size i was but the other day he gave me " that " look as i walked past him in the kitchen and told me i was a sexy b**ch!! That felt real good!!:p
 

Kippaxmum

Back on the wagon
S: 14st0lb C: 13st3lb G: 10st7lb BMI: 31.8 Loss: 0st11lb(5.61%)
#6
Yep! It's a great feeling!! My libido has come back:D. Thought it had packed up and left town!! My husband also loved me no matter what size i was but the other day he gave me " that " look as i walked past him in the kitchen and told me i was a sexy b**ch!! That felt real good!!:p
I keep getting 'that look' and he can't keep his hands off my bum!!! :eek: pmsl

Feels good doesnt it!?
 

JaxieD

Silver Member
S: 15st0lb C: 15st0lb G: 12st0lb BMI: 36 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
#7
It's great!! but i daren't bend down in front of him:D - might get more than i bargained for:giggle:
 
#8
Awesome stories ladies...

My story is some what different haha I have a super high sex drive haha I never had a problem getting a guy and was never self conscious. Now I am with my 'boyfriend'...I get NOTHING and I am super self conscious and hated eating around him as he told me he 'loves' me...but is not physically attracted to me and I have to lose weight! I have always been LIGHTER than him and he's not much taller than me!! GRRRRRRRRRRRR BLAH! haha
 

catznolan

nearly there!! :)
#9
ive always had a HIGH sex drive to and never thought ours could get better...god am i shocked lol!!
he loves more "tender" loving these days and likes to tell me how proud he is of me and that im looking gorg etc!! its really nice though cause it makes me feel sooooo good!!!xx
 

MR2_Owner

Doing Slimming World
S: 22st4lb C: 20st13lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 44.5 Loss: 1st5lb(6.09%)
#10
I can't wait til I've lost a bit more and my Man starts giving me comments like this :). He is very proud of me and loves what I am doing, just havent had any of this yet!

I'm not complaining though :D
 


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