littlestars
Member
Hello everyone, i haven't been on here for a while now but the way i am feeling i felt like i just needed to air my feelings with people who will know how i feel and hopefully give me some advice.
Currently i am 30 years old, a mother of 4 boys and a wife to lovely hubby, on top of being a student nurse. I have god gradually bigger over the years and i am now about 13st 8lbs and a size 18.
I hate being fat. I hate having two bellies, a big bum and wobbly arms and chunky legs :cry:I recently went out for a night out with my friends and although i did look pretty i also looked fat and i felt sad that i couldn't wear the clothes i really wanted too because of my size. I hate going clothes shopping because i just look awful in all the modern clothes and i end up in frumpy old fashioned stuff.
My mum has recently lost over 2 stones and has gone from an 18 to a 14 in about 8 months, my hubby has also just lost 2 stone...this made me feel really sad tonight, not because i am jealous, but because i can't understand why when we eat the same and a both active he has lost weight and i haven't! I feel ugly, disgusting and ashamed of what i have become and its not fair for my husband to have a wife who has let herself go.
I also need to have some nasty Varicose veins removed on my leg and so i am very self concious about these and won't wear anything that shows my legs off at all, but until i lose weight there is no point in having the operation.
I Have tried weight watchers (but i get board with the counting!) and i just can't get into slimming world. I just want to eat healthy like i have been doing. I have cut out the cakes and biscuits i used to eat loads of and just have a bit of chocolate now and again to fight off the need to go back to eating everything and anything sweet!
I don't know what to do :-( i just can't cope any more :-( :cry:
Currently i am 30 years old, a mother of 4 boys and a wife to lovely hubby, on top of being a student nurse. I have god gradually bigger over the years and i am now about 13st 8lbs and a size 18.
I hate being fat. I hate having two bellies, a big bum and wobbly arms and chunky legs :cry:I recently went out for a night out with my friends and although i did look pretty i also looked fat and i felt sad that i couldn't wear the clothes i really wanted too because of my size. I hate going clothes shopping because i just look awful in all the modern clothes and i end up in frumpy old fashioned stuff.
My mum has recently lost over 2 stones and has gone from an 18 to a 14 in about 8 months, my hubby has also just lost 2 stone...this made me feel really sad tonight, not because i am jealous, but because i can't understand why when we eat the same and a both active he has lost weight and i haven't! I feel ugly, disgusting and ashamed of what i have become and its not fair for my husband to have a wife who has let herself go.
I also need to have some nasty Varicose veins removed on my leg and so i am very self concious about these and won't wear anything that shows my legs off at all, but until i lose weight there is no point in having the operation.
I Have tried weight watchers (but i get board with the counting!) and i just can't get into slimming world. I just want to eat healthy like i have been doing. I have cut out the cakes and biscuits i used to eat loads of and just have a bit of chocolate now and again to fight off the need to go back to eating everything and anything sweet!
I don't know what to do :-( i just can't cope any more :-( :cry: