Coley
Re-starter
ok...so this is a little bit from my blog, just wanted to see if anyone else has had the same sort of experience.....
That reminds me of something I wanted to gibber on about. I look at other people and comment in my head about their weight. I know it's not nice, but it's a visual thing and I can't help it. I think most people do but try not to judge people for it. I do that too.
When you're dieting, and people know it. Why do they suddenly think it's ok to comment on your weight? Ask you how much weight you've lost? Or feel the need to scrutinise what you're eating and say things like "ooogh...you're not eating enough". Emmmmm...excuse me? Firstly, I did not "lose" any weight. I know exactly where I put it. It was not an accident. Also, I don't recall asking for anyones opinion on anything. I am happy to sit here and pretend that I always looked this slim - it's just the scales are changing numbers for fun.
I don't particularly want everyone to know how much weight I've painstakingly removed from my body. I don't want them going on about how it's too fast or nosing into what I do or don't eat. That's MY business and I'd tell you if I wanted you to know but I don't, so sod off! I don't know any dieticians but you'd think I did considering all the advice I'm given on what I should and shouldn't eat and what everyone sees as a "healthy" diet.
I am just completely bemused how suddenly now I'm working to get rid of my weight that it is somehow fair game to talk about it? No one did this when I was eating myself to the size of a small house???!
That reminds me of something I wanted to gibber on about. I look at other people and comment in my head about their weight. I know it's not nice, but it's a visual thing and I can't help it. I think most people do but try not to judge people for it. I do that too.
When you're dieting, and people know it. Why do they suddenly think it's ok to comment on your weight? Ask you how much weight you've lost? Or feel the need to scrutinise what you're eating and say things like "ooogh...you're not eating enough". Emmmmm...excuse me? Firstly, I did not "lose" any weight. I know exactly where I put it. It was not an accident. Also, I don't recall asking for anyones opinion on anything. I am happy to sit here and pretend that I always looked this slim - it's just the scales are changing numbers for fun.
I don't particularly want everyone to know how much weight I've painstakingly removed from my body. I don't want them going on about how it's too fast or nosing into what I do or don't eat. That's MY business and I'd tell you if I wanted you to know but I don't, so sod off! I don't know any dieticians but you'd think I did considering all the advice I'm given on what I should and shouldn't eat and what everyone sees as a "healthy" diet.
I am just completely bemused how suddenly now I'm working to get rid of my weight that it is somehow fair game to talk about it? No one did this when I was eating myself to the size of a small house???!