clair75
Full Member
WI this morning lost 4lb git first stone award
But can’t help think its from stress. Done a lot of crying and not much eating
Thing is me and other half are planning to marry July 2010.
But other half is still married, been split 4 years now, and been trying for a divorce for last year or so. His ex will not sign papers.
Some people may say other half should not have asked me to marry him until divorce but he did and I said yes,
And the beginning of this year his ex said she would sign papers, she as got on with her life she moved away lives with her man and late last year had a new baby,
Anyway we sent new forms, she wonted changes so we did that and sent more and she text other half to say had signed and sent back to courts,
So we started the waiting game, and this week other half solicitor got back to us saying courts have had nothing back from her again, and after she said would .
Now don’t know what’s happening other half said his solicitor is on to it and will do it with out her consent, but I get the feeling she will do any think to stop it happening,
With the wedding planned and 17 months away I just don’t know what to do. To carry on with plans and like solicitor says he will sort it and be done this year, or hold wedding till is divorced and can plan knowing all ok.
But if do that what do I tell people as all families no and I have told my mum other half is divorced already to stop her having a go. I no was wrong now.
The date we have planned will come along if my wedding day or not and god that will hurt if not
All I won’t to do is eat chocolate and cry I was only doing this plan to look my best on the wedding day looks like no point now may as well give up now :cry:
But can’t help think its from stress. Done a lot of crying and not much eating
Thing is me and other half are planning to marry July 2010.
But other half is still married, been split 4 years now, and been trying for a divorce for last year or so. His ex will not sign papers.
Some people may say other half should not have asked me to marry him until divorce but he did and I said yes,
And the beginning of this year his ex said she would sign papers, she as got on with her life she moved away lives with her man and late last year had a new baby,
Anyway we sent new forms, she wonted changes so we did that and sent more and she text other half to say had signed and sent back to courts,
So we started the waiting game, and this week other half solicitor got back to us saying courts have had nothing back from her again, and after she said would .
Now don’t know what’s happening other half said his solicitor is on to it and will do it with out her consent, but I get the feeling she will do any think to stop it happening,
With the wedding planned and 17 months away I just don’t know what to do. To carry on with plans and like solicitor says he will sort it and be done this year, or hold wedding till is divorced and can plan knowing all ok.
But if do that what do I tell people as all families no and I have told my mum other half is divorced already to stop her having a go. I no was wrong now.
The date we have planned will come along if my wedding day or not and god that will hurt if not
All I won’t to do is eat chocolate and cry I was only doing this plan to look my best on the wedding day looks like no point now may as well give up now :cry: